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Most people leave their homes empty while they travel, while also renting a place to stay at their destination. Paying for housing twice is part of what makes traveling so expensive (and why home swaps are so popular). 

Traveling gets even more expensive if you have pets. Pets who require multiple daily visits, medication, or overnight company can make going on vacation unaffordable.

The solution for many people is inviting a traveler into their home. As a traveler, you save the cost of a hotel or apartment rental. They save the cost of a paid house sitter. The pets get a lot more attention. Everyone wins.

House sitting is a key part of how I can travel for years without going broke. Since I’m house sitting and working remotely, I’m saving a lot more money than I could if I were living in my own apartment. This allows me to travel slowly, spending months in one place, giving me plenty of time to explore while keeping up with work.

Why would you want to house sit?

I certainly would travel a lot less if I had to pay for hotels — or even renting furnished apartments. With home swapping you simply pay your normal living expenses, but get to stay in someone else’s home. With CouchSurfing and house sitting you pay nothing at all. 

Sure, I buy my hosts gifts, pay to get to and from each destination, and spend a little more money on the road, but it’s still much less that I normally spend on housing. This is especially true when, like me, you’re coming from a city with high housing costs.

If you’re on CouchSurfing just to save money, it’s going to be a huge disappointment. It can be a lot of work to coordinate traveling through CS. If you don’t fall in love with the experience of meeting people and becoming part of the community, you’ll get fed up with the hassles and lose interest pretty quickly.

It can be the same thing with home swapping and pet sitting. When you factor in the time it takes to organize it all, it’d be a lot simpler to just rent an apartment in one of the many cheap destinations that are so popular with digital nomads and retirees. You have to love the wonder and weirdness of it all.

Does house sitting always involve pets?

Not all house sits include pet care. Some hosts only ask that you take in the mail and water the garden. Other hosts need someone there for insurance purposes and peace of mind. 

There are also quite a few opportunities to care for people’s vacation homes in the off-season. These are often rural locations where things are partially or fully off-the-grid or in places popular with snowbirds.

Most house sits do include pets, though. If you aren’t excited to explore new neighborhoods on foot with a dog or spend your nights curled up reading with a cat, this might not be the best fit for you. 

If I was working a traditional nine to five and had two weeks of vacation a year, I’m not sure I’d want to spend my time off taking care of a dog or tending a garden. Think about what you want your travel to be like before you jump into house sitting.

House sitting during the pandemic

I house sat full-time from 2017 until the start of the pandemic. When the sit I was on ended early, I opted to stay where I was. I decided to rent for a while, for my own peace of mind, before going back to house sitting in August of 2020. House sitting is different now than it was before COVID-19, but it’s still a viable option. 

Even during the initial lockdown, many people continued to house sit. People who were unable to return home as scheduled needed house sitters to care for their pets. People who were unable to go to their vacation homes needed house sitters to maintain the property. Plenty of people are traveling for work and other reasons considered essential. When plans change, other house sitters are a great resource for coming up with an alternate solution.

Given the frequent changes of travel restrictions, many hosts are choosing sitters who are already in their region. You’ll want to take border restrictions, quarantine requirements, and other potential issues into consideration before committing to a house sit. It’s important to talk to your host to make plans for issues that might come up.

The pandemic has caused lots of paperwork delays. If your passport or other IDs are expiring, be sure to take this into account when making plans. Renewing my permanent resident card is taking seven months, and counting. 

Do you need special skills?

Most house sits don’t require any special skills. You’re simply doing what your host does every day: living in their home and taking care of their pets and whatever comes up.

It helps to have experience with pets, of course. Quite a few hosts won’t consider applications from people who haven’t had pets of their own or don’t have experience pet sitting. I’ve gotten a lot of sits because I had experience with a diabetic cat and a dog-aggressive pitbull. I’ve also gotten sits for horses, chickens, and pigs, despite having no experience at all with those animals. 

Some hosts seem reassured by the fact that I’ve owned my own home and tackled renovation projects. Hosts with houses relying on wood stoves, well water, a septic tank, propane heat, etc. might prefer people who are familiar with these systems. 

If a host has an extensive garden or beloved house plants, they might prefer a sitter with a green thumb. If you’re there when the seasons change, you might be asked to prepare the pool and yard for winter or other similar tasks. They might be happy to guide you through it, or they might want someone who’s done it before.

Is it weird to stay in someone else’s home?

I get questions all the time that suggest a lot of people are not comfortable with the idea of staying in someone else’s home.

Is it weird when you stay with friends? Does the idea of AirBnB skeeve you out? That’s totally fair. It’s also why hotels exist.

If your house is your castle and there’s one right way to do things, house sitting is probably not for you.

If you want to stay in a hotel and are only considering house sitting as a way to save money, you’re better off signing up for a bunch of credit cards and learning travel hacking and how to find the best hotel deals.

Can you do this if you have a pet?

There are several full-time house sitters I know who travel with pets of their own. It can be more difficult to find sits that will allow you to bring your own pet, but it’s certainly possible.

I also know house sitters who act as the host and the sitter simultaneously. They might travel to San Francisco for a house sit while hosting a sitter to take care of their pets at home in Brussels. 

What to expect

These are homes, not luxury rentals

Social media would have you think every house sitter is living in luxury. Just like how #vanlife is far less glamorous than it seems on Instagram, most house sits aren’t particularly luxurious.

Think about it: most people who go on vacation aren’t among the 1%. Actual rich people have household staff and fly private. They don’t need house sitters.

You don’t need to be rich to go away for several weeks. My hosts are: going on a once-in-a-lifetime anniversary trip, scouting out a city they’re considering moving to, teaching a semester abroad, conducting research while on sabbatical, stationed abroad for work, visiting their kids to help with a new baby, spending a few months helping a sick family member, expats on a visit home, and doing lots of other not-rich-people things.

I’ve lived in New York and Toronto, two cities with high housing costs, and work for nonprofits, which are notorious for low pay. Consequently, the vast majority of homes I stay in for house sits are an upgrade for me. If you live in a more affordable city and have a high salary, many of the homes listed on house sitting sites will seem quite modest in comparison to what you’re used to.

People bragging about looking after luxury villas aren’t lying. Many people with vacation homes abroad need them to be inhabited year round for insurance purposes. You might be responsible for home and yard maintenance or you might be overseeing local workers.

Choose two: location, timing, or situation

If you want a luxury apartment in Paris from June 15 to August 15th, you probably need to rent one.

If you want to spend the summer in a big city, you can find a house sit that works for you.

Sometimes I book sits because I’m looking to spend time in the country. I don’t narrow my search down to a specific location, since then I probably won’t find anything. I’m open to any sit with a bucolic environment with dates that more-or-less fit in my schedule.

Other times I want to visit a certain city to see friends or to do research. I set an alert for that city and fit my travel schedule around the available sits.

Sometimes I’m hoping for a low-maintenance pet or no pets at all. I’ll know when I’ll be ready for a break. While I have an idea in mind of where I’d like to be, I need to be flexible about the location in order to find the situation and dates I’m looking for.

House sitting doesn’t allow for complete control of your travel plans. That’s part of the adventure for me. I like getting to know places I would have otherwise overlooked and being open to new experiences. 

Even if you’re traveling full-time, you don’t need to house sit full-time. It can be one of several ways you arrange for housing.

Planning ahead

House sitting full-time turns planning into a game of Tetris. When I’m considering sits, I’m thinking about how they’d fit into my schedule and my goals.

  • How appealing is the sit? Does the house look nice? Am I excited about the pets, garden, or whatever else? How will this fit in with my workload and anything else I have going on in my life?
  • Am I excited about the location? Are there interesting things to do? How will I get around?
  • Can I get from one sit to another without spending a ton of money on travel and while minimizing transit time?
  • How well do the dates line up and where can I stay between sits? Is there wiggle room for transit delays?
  • How does this sit fit in with the sits I already have confirmed and my potential sits immediately before and after? How does it compare to other potential sits?

When I share my internal debates over which sits to take, my friends immediately get confused and overwhelmed. 

I generally plan six months ahead. I find that trips planned farther out are more likely to change. I’ll book long sits (six weeks or more) and priority sits (being in a specific location for a wedding or conference) first. Then I’ll fill in the gaps in my schedule as the opportunity arises.

Planning ahead is something I do for my own comfort level. There are always sits posted at the last minute, even for long-term sits. 

If you’re comfortable seeing what comes up for next week, you can snag some incredible opportunities. This is how many people with the budget to rent a place or a setup for camping do it. They don’t need to plan ahead, since they always have a place to stay, and choose only the sits they find most appealing.

The work involved

If you’ve had a pet or garden, you know how much work they can be. The amount of care needed can vary significantly from one sit to another. I’ve stayed with cats who seemed like nearly self sufficient roommates. I’ve also had sits where the animals dictated my schedule and required time consuming care.

I enjoy going on long walks. Working remotely, I find that pets help me stick to a schedule. It also means I’m home a lot of the time, so it’s no problem to give medication during the day. When I’m working on a big project, I find that animals keep me company without interrupting my flow. Having a dog makes it easy to meet people in a new place. I’m thrilled to learn about a new animal, like my pig sit, even when it takes a lot of time. Also, I just really like animals. Pet sitting is a great fit for me.

Hosts have their own careers, responsibilities, social lives, and hobbies. They’re not spending all of their waking hours taking care of their home and pets. When I’m house sitting, I’m also exploring the area, socializing, and generally doing my own thing. I’ve even had hosts suggest I spend a night away to visit nearby attractions. It all depends on the animals and what your hosts are comfortable with.

Pet sitting is not for everyone. If walking a dog in the rain or cleaning up cat puke is something you absolutely don’t want to do, you want to know that about yourself before you commit to a three month sit.

Get ready for judgment

I get a lot of weird comments from strangers when they find out I’m traveling full-time. It gets even weirder when people find out I’m house sitting. 

People act like I’m irresponsible and unemployed. They accuse me of abandoning my family and warn me about how I’m going to die alone and without any retirement savings. The kinder version of this has people offering me internships and tips on basic life skills. I learned pretty quickly that there’s no point in trying to correct them, because it’s not about facts.

The weirdness has given me fascinating peeks into what people value and their ideas about societal expectations — and why my life choices cause them distress. Are people happy with where they live? Why do people spend 40 hours a week doing a job they hate? Do they feel like their family is holding them back? Why would someone live in a giant expensive house if they’re worried about money? Do people want to travel as much as they say they do? Did they realize these were choices that they made? Why are they so afraid of strangers? Why do strangers get so upset that I don’t have children?

As someone who prides herself on being very responsible despite being incapable of simply following a traditional path, it’s frustrating to have strangers assume I’m broke and clueless.

People are also very uncomfortable with the idea that I’m not getting paid and I’m not paying for housing. They assume someone must be getting exploited, but they aren’t sure which one of us it is. 

It makes me sad to see how little value some people see in things that we don’t pay money for. The things that make CouchSurfing and house sitting magical — the things that make life magical — can’t be bought.

The act of paying for something changes things. This is something I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about, especially since the complicated emotions involved with monetizing the invaluable connects so deeply with my work with The Caregiver Space. The best book I’ve found on the topic so far is Debt.

It’s interesting to ask myself why it bothers me so much when people assume I’m a professional dog walker. Is it about being seen as someone with a lower social status? Is it because my work feels so integral to my identity? It might also be the feeling of failure that comes with having a masters degree in communications and yet not being able to convince a stranger that I’m not a dog walker.

Staying in touch requires dedication

While I don’t worry about dying alone and childless, I do think about how my travels impact my relationships and my community. My destinations are heavily influenced by people who are important to me. I’ve embraced spending time in both New York and Toronto even though I’m “nomadic.”

I feel a little disingenuous claiming to be a digital nomad when I’m not in Bali. I spend a lot of time in Toronto for someone who’s theoretically traveling full-time! But in the classical sense of the term, nomads were people who lacked a fixed home who rotated through the same areas.

Semantics aside, I like spending time in Toronto and New York. I love meeting new people, but there’s nothing quite like visiting old friends. Slow travel means that instead of visiting friends for a few days, I can spend weeks or months as their neighbor.

How to find house sits

You’ve probably house sat for a friend or neighbor before. House sitting for a stranger is a little different, especially when they’re in another country. Most sits are arranged online. Typically, you don’t meet your host or see their home in person before the sit starts. 

The main house sitting websites

There are a number of different house sitting sites, each with a slightly different niche. If you’re planning on house sitting full time, you might want to join more than one.

Most of them have membership fees, all of which are less than what you’d pay for a night in a hotel. They also let you view the listings without paying, so you can see if they’re a good fit. 

Most sites have email alerts, so you can get a daily email with available sits and alerts for saved searches. Trusted House Sitters and Mind My House both allow you to see how many sitters have already applied, so you can gauge the amount of competition. I’ve had positive customer service experiences with Trusted House Sitters, House Sitters Canada, and House Carers.

Trusted House Sitters

Trusted House Sitters has the most listings and the most user friendly interface. It’s global, with a strong emphasis on the US, Canada, UK, Europe, and Australia. THS has a mix of sit lengths, with quite a few sits that are only for a long weekend or a week. 

House Sitters America, Canada, UK & Aussie/Kiwi House Sitters

If you’re planning a trip in a specific geographic area, the House Sitters sites are the way to go. I’ve found a lot of long-term sits using House Sitters Canada. Most of these sits are for two or more weeks, with quite a few lasting more than six months. The interface isn’t particularly intuitive, but it works.

One interesting thing about the House Sitters sites is that many owners will invite sitters directly, rather than posting an ad. 


Nomador is global, with an emphasis on Europe and a user friendly interface. Their Stopovers feature is basically CouchSurfing built into the network.

Mind My House

Mind My House is among the cheapest options, since it’s free to hosts and only $20 a year for sitters. 

House Carers

House Carers is global, with most of their sits in North America and Europe. The interface is quirky and overly complex. 

Creating a profile for house sitting

You’ll be sending personal messages to each host, but you’ll still want to include the most important pieces of information in your profile.

Explain why you’re interested in house sitting. Are you looking for a cheap vacation? Are you thinking about relocating and want to check out the area? Are you visiting friends? Are you exploring the continent? You don’t have to go into a lot of detail, but it gives people an idea of who you are.

The photos you upload are another opportunity to demonstrate who you are. They don’t all have to be pictures of you and the adorable animals that love you. I have pictures of me with my friends, family, and me out being a nerd. Maybe you want to share a photo of a favorite trip, the renovation you just finished, or of your garden.

Some people make videos to introduce themselves. This can really help people get a feel for your personality.

The critters

The first questions homeowners have are generally about your experience with pets.

  • Have you pet sit before?
  • Have you had pets of your own?
  • What animals have you taken care of?
  • Have you given medications? What types?
  • Are you comfortable with aggressive, anxious, or large dogs?
  • Are you comfortable walking and hiking?
  • How much time will you spend with the pets?

Life as a house guest

Some people are very particular about their homes, while others are much more relaxed. Knowing where you fall on the spectrum and what you’re comfortable with is key to a good experience. 

If you’re not the type of person who keeps things spotless and puts things back exactly where you found it, you’ll want to steer clear of places that are a little too perfect in the photos. If you’re a neat freak, don’t apply for sits where they’re even messy in the photos.

  • How tidy are you?
  • Are you vegan, vegetarian, Kosher, Halal, gluten free?
  • Are you willing to follow kitchen restrictions?
  • Are you okay with going scent free?
  • Do you smoke?

Your house skills

There’s more than just pets, there’s also the house! Most sits just ask that you collect the mail and water plants, but there are plenty of sits that involve more care.

  • Can you keep houseplants alive? How about specialty plants?
  • Are you handy around the house?
  • Are you a proficient gardener?
  • Do you know how to use different types of heating systems?
  • Are you familiar with sump pumps, wells, and septic systems?
  • Do you know how to take care of a pool?


Some sits include access to a car while many others require sitters to have a car of their own.

  • Do you have a driver’s license?
  • Do you have a car of your own? Do you get around by bike?
  • Will you be arriving in an RV, camper, or van that you need space to park?

How you make your money

Yes, house sitting allows you to stay in other people’s homes without paying money for it. This isn’t a charity or a shelter, so they want to know you have a place to go before and after.

  • Are you taking a big trip you’ve saved up for?
  • Are you on vacation?
  • Are you between jobs?
  • Will you be working remotely full-time or part-time?
  • Will you be going into an office?

Prove that you’re trustworthy

What information would you need to know about someone before handing over your keys? Start with that!

Get references

Maybe you haven’t house sat through a platform, but you’ve probably house sat for friends. You can ask them to leave you references.

Have you used CouchSurfing, HomeExchange, AirBnB, or another site with a reference system? Providing a link to your other hospitality and home swapping websites is a great way to provide social proof.

Be googleable

There’s a ton of information about me online. It’s easy for potential hosts to verify things about me and get a feel for what I’m like if they want to know more about me.

  • Do you have a website of your own?
  • Does your company website include information about you?
  • How about schools you’ve attended?
  • Do you volunteer with organizations that have information about you online?

Lots of full-time house sitters have dedicated Instagram accounts. This certainly isn’t necessary, but if your social media profiles are public it doesn’t hurt to post a few adorable pictures of you and some furry friends.

Background checks

Some house sitting platforms have built-in verification systems. They might verify your ID and have the option to get a background check. You can also get a background check done from your local police station for what’s usually a small fee. Because of my work and my habit of volunteering, I often have a recent background check. I’ve never had anyone ask to see it.

Applying to a house sit

You can search for house sits by date or location on most sites, but sits in popular tourist destinations get scooped up quickly. Sign up for emails that provide a list of new sits. People in places like New York, London, and Paris can easily get ten applications in an hour and they’re certain to find someone lovely among those first few.

The listing

Read all of the information in a listing before you apply. Check the photos and references. There’s no point in applying for a sit you wouldn’t actually want! 

I sometimes find myself doing some quick searches to get a better idea of what to expect.

  • How much will it cost to get there and to my next spot? How long does it take? How frequent are flights/trains/buses? Do they need to be booked in advance?
  • Once I get there, will I be able to get around? Can I walk everywhere I want to go? Is there public transportation? What taxi services are available? Will they be leaving me a car or a bike? Could I rent a car easily?
  • Does their house have a comfortable space for me to work?
  • Can I get to the grocery store? Could I get groceries delivered?
  • Will I be staying in the main bedroom? In a guest room? In a separate suite?
  • Can I take good care of the pets and house and still have time to do the other things I’d like to do?


What I look for in a sit depends a lot on what I’m hoping to get out of the experience. Sometimes I want to be right downtown and it hardly matters what the home is like, because the dog and I will be out exploring. Other times I’ll pick places where I can throw myself into a project and work without distraction, other than critters to keep me company and listen to me reading aloud while I edit. Know what you’re looking for before you respond to a listing so you don’t find yourself in a sit that’s not the right fit for you.

Your message

Your message should be personable and address any concerns in the listing, without being longer than it needs to be.

  • Address them by name and mention the pets by name
  • Why do you want to visit the city?
  • Will you be working? Site seeing? How much time will you be spending with the critters?
  • Do you have experience that makes you particularly well suited to this sit?
  • Where are you coming from and going to?
  • Will you be able to meet with them ahead of time? When would you arrive in the city?
  • Do you have any concerns about the sit being the right fit, like transit accessibility or making sure they have reliable wifi?

I don’t necessarily address all of these in every application. If someone’s listing doesn’t include a lot of information, I keep my message short and might just ask for more details. If a listing is very detailed, I make sure to address anything in the listing that stands out to me.

After you apply

Some hosts reply to every application they get. Others will simply choose someone and not reply to the people they don’t select.

It’s not uncommon for people to ask to have a video call over Skype or WhatsApp with two or three applicants before making a final decision. You can also suggest a call. 

Remember, the vetting goes both ways! I’ve withdrawn my application for sits after chatting with the hosts.

This is a good opportunity to ask any questions you have. Will the internet be reliable and fast enough for the work you do? Is there a car for you to use? Is it okay for you to have guests over? How long can you leave the pets alone? This is a big one, as some hosts don’t want their dog left alone for more than four hours or similarly short windows that make going out difficult.

If someone seems nervous about having a stranger in their home, I’ll often offer to provide them with a scan of my ID or ask them if there’s anything I can provide to make them feel more comfortable.

A few times I’ve been able to meet with hosts after applying, when I happen to be in the same city as them.

Other times, homeowners have chosen me just by looking at my application and messaged me to arrange my arrival details.

How people choose a house sitter

Sometimes hosts choose someone because they’re objectively a better fit. Maybe they have experience that makes them well suited or have lots of good references. Perhaps they just applied first or were able to meet in person.

Other times, the decision comes down to things that are less quantifiable. Maybe they just liked the vibe of someone else’s profile or they both happen to play the violin or are both from Minnesota. Some hosts prefer retired people, while others think a young person will do a better job of keeping up with an energetic pet. Maybe they would rather have a couple or absolutely don’t want a couple. Maybe it’s because they’re homophobic or racist or just don’t like the way you look. You’ll probably never know why someone decides not to pick you in these cases.

Luckily, there are lots of house sits out there waiting for you.

Confirming a sit

I apply to a lot of house sits. Even when I have a specific date range and geographic area in mind, there are usually still one or two listings a day that pique my interest. Once I apply for a sit, I more or less forget about it unless I get a message back.

Once I’m in communication with a host, I add it to the possibilities I’m currently debating. I’ve turned down some great opportunities because I had others where the dates worked out better or were easier to get to. Know your priorities.

I’ll check with the host before I book flights or make any travel arrangements. I’ve found that plenty of people are happy to have me arrive a day early and stay a day late to make my travels easier and give us time to go over things in person. Some people prefer this, especially with dogs who need time to adjust to new people.

Remember, a sit isn’t necessarily confirmed until the host has chosen you through the site interface and you’ve also confirmed it.

House sitting agreements

Some house sitting platforms encourage written house sitting agreements. Sites will offer sample agreements that you can customize.

Most hosts don’t ask for a written agreement, but you might prefer to have one. It’s a great way to make sure you’ve gone over all the details and both understand what the situation will be.

A house sitting agreement might also come in handy to show a border agent as proof of housing. I’ve used one to get a temporary library card, too.

Preparing for a pet sit

Your first house sit can be a little intimidating, especially if you’re new to traveling. Remember that house sitting is nothing more than staying in a different home and keeping up with your host’s routines. 

Each home is a little different and has its idiosyncrasies. While your first day might involve hunting for items in the kitchen and finding the most convenient spot for your laptop, you’ll settle into a new routine quickly enough.

Many hosts already have a house guide to give you. If they don’t, here’s how to create a house guide for a pet sitter.

The basics

Arrival and departure

Make sure you know when your hosts are leaving and returning home. Are these dates and times firm? Are there any potential delays they anticipate? Having flight numbers is helpful, especially if delays are likely and pets can’t be left alone for long.

Some hosts prefer I arrive early so we can go over things together. Others are happy to leave a key under the mat. Check in before you book your travel. Know where you’re going and how you’re getting keys.


Some hosts would be happy for hourly updates, while others want to unplug on their vacation. Plenty are happy to check my Instagram account for pet updates and keep text messages for important things. 

It’s helpful to know if they’ll be unreachable for part of their trip. If this is the case, find out when they’ll be available for questions and do your best to anticipate things that might come up.

Plenty of people will switch to a local SIM card or use an app to avoid charges. Figure out the best way to stay in touch without missing messages or getting a huge phone bill.

Pet care

Feeding the pets seems like it’d be simple, but there can be a lot of information to gather.

  • When are they fed? How flexible is feeding time?
  • Are there any medications to be given at meals?
  • Do they free feed or do portions need to be carefully measured?
  • Does the food need to be prepared?
  • What treats do they normally get and how often?
  • Is it okay for them to accept treats from strangers, like at a shop or from the doorman?

For cats, make sure you know where all the litter boxes are and how often they’re usually cleaned. Some cats will go outside the box if it’s not cleaned immediately, while others are fine as long as it’s cleaned once every other day. How often do they typically change the litter? Where is the spare litter?

For dogs, ask lots of questions about their exercise habits and behavior.

  • What’s their walk schedule? How flexible is it?
  • Do they use a special harness?
  • Do they wear booties or a coat in bad weather? How do you clean them off? How do you protect their feet from salt in winter?
  • Do they take a specific route on walks? Can I deviate from this?
  • What’s the minimum and maximum amount of exercise they can get in a day?
  • Do they have any issues on walks? How does the host typically manage this?
  • Is it okay for strangers to pet them?
  • Can they come into a shop with me or wait outside for a few minutes?
  • Where are there spare poo bags? Can dog waste go in the bio bin?
  • What tricks do they know? What are the corresponding words or gestures?

It’s important to find out about any behavioral issues. Most hosts are very open about any problems that might come up. Remember, pets will often behave differently with different people, so you still never really know what to expect.

  • Will they tear up the house or bark if left alone? 
  • Will they eat any food left unattended or eat cosmetics? 
  • Do they scratch the furniture or do other destructive things?
  • Is there a specific corner they sometimes pee in? 
  • Will they run out the door if I’m not careful?

Confirm any medication or other medical care pets might require.

  • When is it given, how much, and how often?
  • Does the pet resist taking medication? What can I do to make it easier?
  • Pets might have medication they take occasionally, like allergy medicine, so find out what signs to monitor and how to administer it. 
  • If heart worm pills, flea treatments, etc need to be administered, when does that need to be done and where are the supplies?

If the pets need grooming, find out what plans have been made for this.

Some hosts leave me petty cash for incidentals. Some leave a stockpile of supplies. Others arrange for deliveries before I run out. Others have me pick up supplies as needed and reimburse me. Talk to your host and come up with a system that works for both of you.

Don’t forget to get emergency contacts for pets. This usually includes the vet’s office, a trusted friend, and animal control.

The house

It’s helpful to know if any spaces are off-limits. Don’t forget to ask what spots are off-limits for the pets! Are there plants that need to be watered in rooms you might not otherwise use?

Some hosts will continue having their cleaning person, landscaper, and dog walker come during my stay. Find out if this is the case and what the schedule is. 

  • Do they have a key? 
  • How is payment handled? 
  • Should you be there when they come? 
  • Are there any repairs scheduled during your stay?

Find out where the thermostat is, if they’re okay with you adjusting it, and if it’s on a timer. It’s always good to know where the emergency water and electrical shut-offs are, just in case. Find out if a neighbor has a spare key.

Every house has its quirks. Ask what’s unusual about their home that might come up during your stay. It might be helpful to give them time to think of things, since we’re so used to the broken gate and fussy washing machine start button that we don’t even notice them.

One of the items I often struggle to find in a home is the vacuum. It’s either in an obvious spot, like the closet with all their cleaning supplies, or it’s tucked somewhere random that you might not find without some serious hunting. I don’t want to open every closet, scope out what’s under the beds, and peer into their utility room, so I just ask.

Plenty of older homes have electric systems that are easily overwhelmed. Find out if they have to be careful about how many things they plug in at once and how they manage it. Don’t forget to ask where the electrical box is and if there are any special instructions for resetting the circuit breaker.

Find out if they’re comfortable with you having people over. Even with permission, I generally only have guests who I know well. Some hosts have let me have overnight guests. I’ve had my parents and friends visit me during sits.

Don’t forget to get the wifi password.

The kitchen

Some hosts are happy for me to make myself at home and even buy groceries with me (especially short stays in rural areas), but most of the time I’ll provide my own groceries. I’ll eat or toss any perishables they leave behind.

Unless given other instructions, I’ll follow rules of being a roommate. If I’m only going to use a small amount of something, like spices, I’ll go ahead and use theirs. If I forgot something at the store, I’ll use theirs and replace it before I leave. If it’s something that’s semi-perishable, like condiments, I’ll use up theirs first and then replace it.

Most of the time kitchen appliances are pretty standard, but every once in a while there’s something that’s not intuitive. This comes up most often in international sits or off-the-grid locations. 

Important things to find out include:

  • Do they want you to keep their kitchen kosher, vegetarian, vegan, or gluten free?
  • Are there specific rules for cleaning the kitchen countertop, stovetop, or anything else?
  • Is there anything quirky about the kitchen or kitchen appliances?
  • Is there anything they’d rather you not use?
  • What are the rules for recycling? What’s the schedule for trash pickup?

The yard

The longer the sit, the more likely it is you’ll be responsible for yard maintenance. Find out what work needs to be done, where the equipment is, and what to do with yard waste.


Find out if the hosts will be leaving you a car or bicycle to use. You might want to check that you’ll be covered by insurance and get a note making it clear you have permission to use the vehicle.

If they’re leaving you a bike, don’t forget to find out where the lock is. It’s also helpful to know local tips for biking, including how safe it is to leave a bike locked outside.

Legal issues

If you’re house sitting in a country where you’re not a resident, make sure your visitor visa will last the length of the sit. Verify that your health insurance will be valid where you’re traveling. If you’re working remotely, make sure that’s legal. Check the expiration dates on your passport, health card, and drivers license.

Border agents aren’t always sure what to make of house sitting. Some will misunderstand it and assume you’re working without a visa. This could lead you to being turned away at the border.

The easiest way to provide border agents with an honest answer without raising red flags is to just provide the address when they ask where you’ll be staying. If they ask for more details, say you’ll be staying with family friends or looking after the dog of a friend of a friend. Border control is not the place to evangelize about the joys of house sitting or the magic of the gift economy.

What to bring with you for a sit

I typically travel very light. This occasionally makes my life more exciting, like when the supply chain breaks down during a pandemic and the seasons change. Most of the time it means I don’t have to lug things around. 

I do occasionally wish I had more things with me, even under normal conditions. Before the pandemic hit, I’d been planning on buying a car and spending 2020 and 2021 researching care webs in rural communities. While I’d be hard pressed to come up with a less pandemic-friendly research project, I had come up with some things I was eager to travel with once I had a car:

  • Spices! The availability of spices in people’s homes is very hit-or-miss, which means I often pick up the basics and leave them behind
  • One or two good knives and a can opener. So many homes don’t have can openers!
  • A french press, because I have an aversion to Keurig and Nespresso machines
  • An anti-fatigue mat for my standing desk
  • A few art supplies
  • Camping essentials

I’m content to construct a standing desk out of found materials at each sit, but maybe you want something more reasonable. Many people would be eager to travel with a spare monitor and a laptop stand.

When a sit goes wrong

Just like when you live in your own home, sometimes things go wrong. A toilet overflows. The normally docile dog jumps the fence chasing a rabbit. A storm hits and knocks a tree into the shed. 

Pet problems

I didn’t have any particular expertise with animals when I started house sitting. Getting to know so many different animals in a short time is very different from simply having a dog at home. While I’m hardly a professional dog trainer, I’ve gotten to know a lot about managing pet behaviors so everyone is safe and happy.

No matter how well informed you are by your hosts, pets are different with different people and different when their parents aren’t around. Be ready for the unexpected.

Anxious and aggressive dogs

If my host has a specific way they manage their dog’s behavioral issues, that’s what I do. 

At other times, my host isn’t sure what to do about an issue and is open to me finding a way to manage it. 

I’m a stickler with having dogs walk beside me on a short, slack lead. I have them match my pace. I give them time to sniff and do their business, responding to their cues without letting them direct the whole walk. When dogs are distracted I keep a fast pace and an extra short leash.

Dogs generally understand I’m their temporary person by the second day, so they want to make me happy. I give them lots of immediate feedback so they can understand what to do. I give a quick “no” when they’re getting out of line, a quick tug when they need to heel, and a scratch behind the ears when they sit while we wait for the light to change.

It’s counter intuitive, but dogs behave better when I’m listening to podcasts while we’re out on a walk. When I’m on high alert, trying to anticipate their next move, they stay on high alert, too. They become much more reactive to other dogs, squirrels, and trash on the ground. When I’m listening to a podcast (without totally zoning out) they’re focused on me. If they’re not focused on me, I’ll take a sudden turn or do a loop to get their attention.

Comforting an anxious dog reinforces the anxiety. Instead, I show them that I’m calm, so they understand they’re safe with me. I’ll talk to them to get them excited to walk and offer them praise when they follow my lead.

If a dog is getting riled up, I stand in front of them and have them sit. If they don’t, I walk towards them until they do, which sometimes means backing them up into a wall. Once they’re calm, we continue on our walk.

Cat behavioral issues

Cats can be fussy about change. If they’re going to do their business outside the litterbox, it’s going to be when their parents are packing or just after you’ve arrived.

It’s very common for cats to go in other places if their litterbox is full. 

If a cat is going outside the box, let your hosts know right away. They can help you determine the most likely cause and decide if the cat needs to be taken to the vet.

When the pet becomes ill

If a pet gets sick, you might have to decide if medical attention is necessary. If it’s not an obvious emergency, get in touch with your host or emergency contact before taking them to the vet. If you’re using Trusted House Sitters, you have access to their 24/7 vet hotline.

Your host will generally leave you with information for their veterinarian, along with the nearest 24/7 animal hospital. The animal hospital can call your host to go over treatment options and handle payment. Once that’s taken care of, the vet tech can explain whatever care and medication will be necessary, as well as scheduling follow-up care.

I took care of a cat who was on several medications, one of which was taken as an oral liquid. This cat took his pills fine, but seemed very upset about the liquid medication. I spoke with my host and the vet and they decided it was better for the cat to skip the medication for the rest of the sit than to go through the distress. 

He’d been hiding and running away from me, but soon after I stopped giving him his liquid meds he was happy to sit with me. Given that experience, if an animal seems very upset about taking medication that he’ll take from his parents, I’d check to see if he could skip it for the first few days to allow us to bond.

Caring for sick or elderly pets

I’ve taken care of a number of elderly pets and pets with health issues. Usually these sits are uneventful. Typically my host lets the vet know that I’m taking care of the pet and that I’m authorized to make decisions if they can’t be reached.

I’ve had several sits where it was within reason for a pet to die or need to be euthanized while I was there. Before the sit we went over their wishes for the pet, including signs that it might be time. They also talked this over with the vet.

At a recent sit I did take a cat to the vet to be euthanized. He’d been frail for a long time, but retained his spirit and was very affectionate. However, a few weeks into my sit his health started to noticably decline. I was concerned that he was suffering and felt unable to keep him comfortable and safe. I spoke with my hosts and the vet about the behavior change. Given his overall health, we decided not to pursue further diagnosis and treatment. When things hadn’t improved after a few days, my hosts agreed it was time and I took him to the vet to be euthanized. It was a tough experience for all of us, but I think we were all confident that it was the right decision and my hosts knew I’d done everything I could to keep him comfortable.

Home problems

You’re staying in someone’s home. Most homes are comfortable. Most hosts tidy up ahead of your arrival. That’s most, not all. There are occasionally sits listed for homes that are wildly out of line with your standards.

When the house is a disaster

Most hosts are upfront about any potential issues with their house. Every once in a while there’s someone who casually forgets to mention the massive cockroach infestation, that they’re a hoarder, or that the pipes clank all night.

This is why it’s so important to ask questions and carefully check the photos in the listing. If there aren’t many photos, set up a video call and ask for a tour.

If you arrive at a sit and things are unacceptable, Trusted House Sitters isn’t going to intervene if they feel you simply didn’t do your due diligence before agreeing to the sit. If you bail on the sit, the homeowners can give you a bad review and you could be kicked off the platform you used to book the sit. 

You can make a choice about whether to leave. If you stay, you can work with the homeowners to decide how to manage the conditions.

When something goes wrong with the house

If something goes wrong with the house during your stay, like a pipe bursts or a neighbor accidentally backs his car through their living room, the first thing to do is whatever you would do in any emergency of that sort. Find the emergency water shut-off. Make sure the neighbor is okay and call the authorities.

Once the crisis is stable, get in touch with your host or their emergency contact. You might be the point-person to manage whatever happens next with repairs and need to be there to show the damage to the insurance agent, or they might have their emergency contact handle it.

If you’re unable to remain in the home, you’ll need to work with your host to come up with an alternative plan. If you booked the sit through a platform, they might offer support for this process.

When things get broken

We all drop glasses. Pets have accidents. While these things don’t happen often, if you house sit long enough, it’s bound to.

You can clean just about anything with baking soda or vinegar. The internet is full of cleaning tips. Check to make sure you’re using the right cleaning agent for the job ahead of time and, whenever possible, test it before you go all in. 

If something is ruined, don’t just hope your hosts don’t notice. The best way to handle it depends on what was broken and if it can be replaced. Dropping an IKEA mug is very different from dropping the last remaining tea cup from great grandma’s tea set.

They may or may not expect you to replace the item. I handle this as I would as I would in any situation where I accidentally cause damage while a guest in someone’s home.

When telling your hosts what happened, it’s important to do so in a way that reassures them that their home is safe in your hands. Accidents happen, even when you’re being responsible and considerate.

It doesn’t hurt to ask homeowners to let you know if there’s anything of particular (emotional) value to them that they’d prefer you not use. They can also put these things away for safekeeping during your stay.

People problems

There are occasionally listings where people clearly have high expectations for a house sitter. This is usually clear from the listing itself. It also comes out during a phone or video call with the host. If you aren’t up for having this be a full-time job or dealing with someone who’s going to micromanage you, pass on the sit.

Nearly every host tells me in advance if they have any sort of surveillance cameras. Most offer to remove them or turn them off during my stay. They’ve always been at the front or back door for security or facing the pet’s favorite spot.

Laws regarding privacy while a guest in someone else’s home vary by location, but it’s generally illegal to record someone where there’s a reasonable assumption of privacy, like in a bedroom or bathroom. If you find a hidden camera, you can decide if you want to contact the site you found the listing on and/or the authorities. All the house sitting sites will ban a host for this behavior.

Cancelled sits

It’s rare for sits to be cancelled once they’re confirmed. When I had a sit cancelled ahead of time, my host offered to reimburse me for the flights I’d booked. I’ve never had a sit that was cancelled at the last minute. I have had people’s flights get cancelled, so we had a slightly stressful but still fun slumber party.

Sometimes people aren’t entirely sure if a trip is going to happen or not. In this case, they’ll generally tell you right away. They’ll either select a sitter who has a backup place to stay (like someone doing #vanlife or a local looking to explore a nearby city) or offer to host you regardless (in their guest room or sometimes a separate guest house or apartment).

The finances of house sitting

People still seem to assume I must have a trust fund — or parents footing the bills — in order to travel full-time, despite the proliferation of digital nomads. Traveling full-time is not more expensive than staying in one place. In fact, for me it’s significantly less expensive to travel, even without relocating to countries with a lower cost of living.

When most people think about saving money or budgeting, they imagine making sacrifices. I shy away from doing anything to save money that feels like suffering.

Plenty of mediocre financial advisors will tell you to cut out the ‘latte factor’ to reduce your spending. Any good financial advisor will tell you to stop worrying about your lattes and instead go after your biggest expense — housing.

Free housing

House sitting is by far the most fun way I’ve discovered to save money. Instead of cutting back, I’m getting to live in different places, meet new people, and hang out with great pets.


Many people who embark on long-term travel will sell their home first. Even many people who rent out their home clear things out and put everything in storage.

Because I rent my place furnished, I’ve eliminated my housing costs without having to sell everything I own (and eventually replace them) or pay for storage. Furnished rentals are much more convenient for people looking for a temporary home, not a forever home. This is great because it’s my forever home, not an actual investment property.

Turning my home into a temporary investment property saves me the transaction costs of selling. Given the rapid increase in Toronto’s housing costs during the past few years, renting my place means I have the option to stop traveling without having to relocate to a less expensive city.

Household items

Paying for housing is more than just rent (or your mortgage, maintenance, and utilities). It’s also buying lots of little things (that are so often missing from vacation rentals!). Think of how much you spend on cleaning products and household items.

When you’re staying in someone’s home, all these things are there for you. I aim to be a good guest, so I replenish things, but household items are part of the deal with short-term house sitting. How much olive oil, detergent, or windex will I really use in three weeks? Not much.

This isn’t always the case for long-term sits, but it’s normal for short-term sits. If I’m staying in someone’s home for less than a month, they typically supply me with all the essentials. If I’m staying long-term, I’d supply more of these things for myself.


Coming from a family that doesn’t waste food, it can be shocking to see what’s in people’s refrigerators. Did they not realize they were going away?! I eat or toss whatever perishables they’ve left, because no one wants to come home to a fridge full of funky food. 

I’ve also gotten to enjoy the fruits of people’s gardens, chicken coop, and even their farm shares.

I have yet to have a homeowner who hasn’t told me I’m free to use their spices and condiments. I’m happy to buy my own food, but there’s no space in my backpack for spices and things are pretty bland without them.

Even if I’m not eating other people’s food, simply having access to a kitchen means I can cook. I’m learning the art of cooking based on the length of my stay, which can be a fun cooking adventure. Choosing a culinary theme for each sit cuts down on food waste and how many ingredients I’m buying.

There’s a surprising variation in prices from place to place, even within North America. I adjust my cooking to whatever happens to be inexpensive in that area and season, which is a fun way to mix things up.


I wasn’t ever much of a shopaholic, but there’s really no need to spend money on clothes when I’m traveling. I went personal item only for six weeks and haven’t looked back.

I aim to be able to blend in at a conference, so everything in my bag passes for business casual. It’s easy to come up with a few outfits that are appropriate for just about any situation I might find myself in.

The only people I see multiple times in the same week already know I live out of a backpack.

I often switch things when I’m in Toronto and New York, where I can stash off-season items. Even if I were buying new items regularly, it still wouldn’t amount to much, since not much fits in my bag.

Things I wouldn’t normally pay for

I eliminate plenty of (significant!) items from my budget by house sitting. I also get access to things I wouldn’t ever normally pay for.

When I’m renting a place, I would never splurge for a huge house in an exclusive neighborhood. Or even a fancy condo in a building with tons of amenities. House sitting gives me the opportunity to stay in places far nicer than anything I’d choose if I were paying.

I generally shy away from renting a car, never mind a luxury car. However, I’ve driven some really nice cars because the people I’m house sitting for hand me the keys.

While I’ve watched TV once since I’ve started house sitting (that’s not bragging, that’s confessing how strange I am), I almost always have access to enormous TVs with hundreds of channels and Netflix.

I’ve also been gifted museum guest passes and tickets to events, which is a nice perk!

The costs of house sitting

Sometimes other house sitters complain about how expensive it is. It can be, if you’re treating it like a vacation. Sure, they’re not paying for a vacation rental, but they’re still paying for flights, renting a car for weeks, going out to eat, paying admission fees for local attractions, and all those vacation costs. They’re still paying all the bills for their place back at home. It’s less expensive than a typical vacation, but it’s far from free.

That’s not what I do.

Even though no money changes hands, house sitting isn’t entirely free. Here are the expenses that come up for me when I’m house sitting full-time.

Membership fees

When I signed up for Trusted House Sitters I was worried that I was throwing money away on a membership fee. I figured the price was less than a single night in a hotel, so it was worth the gamble. It’s really paid off for me.

Housing between sits

Even when I’m fully booked as a house sitter, the start and end dates rarely line up perfectly. Plus, I like to have time to meet the homeowners in person and not have to worry about travel delays.

Some full-time house sitters will stay in hotels between sits, which can get expensive quickly.

Many hosts invite me to stay with them before and after the sit. They’re happy to get to know the person they’re entrusting with their beloved pets (and home!). I’ve had plenty of hosts share meals with me and treat me like visiting family. It’s been a wonderful experience. 

It might sound like it’d be awkward to stay with a stranger, but if you understand the magic of CouchSurfing, you’ll understand why I always jump at these opportunities.

The other obvious solution is to stay with friends and family between sits. Whether or not this is a realistic option depends on where you’re traveling and how well distributed your network is — along with how eager they are to host you!


I look forward to the opportunity to CouchSurf between house sits, since it’s a great way to meet new people. As a long-term CouchSurfer, I have more friends scattered around the world than is normal. Even when I have a friend to stay with in a city, I sometimes use CS as an opportunity to meet someone new. This is especially tempting at the start of a long sit when I’m looking to meet local friends and find opportunities to get involved in the community.

Find another sit!

I’ve used local Facebook groups and other websites to find sits for specific dates in a specific location. People might not be familiar with house sitting as an exchange, rather than a paid job, so it can take a little explaining. Often I’m already in the city, so I can meet my potential host ahead of time to make sure it’s a match. People have jumped at the opportunity to take a long weekend away once they knew they didn’t have to worry about their pets.

Home swapping

I’ve hosted a lot of guests through Home Exchange over the years. Exchanges don’t have to be simultaneous, so I can accumulate guest points when I’m in my own apartment (and I’m staying at my girlfriend’s place, visiting family, or on a work trip) and use guest points while I’m traveling.

Vanlife and camping

Vanlife doesn’t have much appeal for me, since I really appreciate running water, reliable wifi, and having a comfortable work space. However, the thought of staying in a van and camping between sits sounds fun.

Lots of full-time travelers live in their vans or camp between house sits. It gives them the best of both worlds.


You can spend a few weeks or months living on a boat for free, even without any experience

If you’ve ever had roommates, you know there’s nothing better than roommates you love and nothing worse than roommates you hate. Especially when you’re on a boat. Most captains will have you join for a short trip to try things out before signing on to cross the ocean together.

If you love it, crewing can become a career.


Worldwide Opportunities on Organic Farms is a global network of farms where you can work part-time in exchange for room and board. This is a fantastic option if you’re up for an adventure. 

I appreciate that WWOOFing is so flexible. My stay can start any time. Most farms prefer you stay at least a week. Many are happy to have you stay longer if it’s going well. WWOOFs are used to hosting workers without cars, so hosts are used to picking people up from airports and bus stops.

Each WWOOF is different, just like with house sitting. Hosts have wildly different expectations and accommodations vary. Officially, you’re expected to put in 20 hours a week and be provided with all meals. However, many hosts make it clear that they expect more than 20 hours of work. Some hosts have specific expectations for behavior, like requiring you to join them for religious services or banning “surfing the net.” It’s up to you to decide if you’re up for that.

WWOOFing is a great way to learn about farming, animal husbandry, cooking, and craftsmanship. Many farms host several travelers at once, making it wonderful for meeting other travelers.

Travel between sits

Slow travel is less expensive than fast travel. The longer you stay in each place, the less you spend traveling between places.

Even if I don’t find a long-term sit, I’ll sometimes book several sits in the same area and get to experience different neighborhoods in the same city. If I can take a bus between two sits, I might CouchSurf somewhere along the bus or train route to turn a long ride into an adventure. 

Before I agree to a sit (or even apply) I check transportation costs. Sometimes flying can be really cheap, but other times its not. I don’t want to have to choose between shelling out a ton of cash for a flight or cancelling a sit I’ve already agreed to.


Lots of house sitting opportunities are in car-dependent places. As someone who doesn’t have a car, this limits the number of sits I can apply to. Even people who do have a car may not want to drive to a far-away house sit.

Usually listings make it clear if you need a car to get around and whether or not there’s parking if you have a car of your own. 

Quite a few sits are in downtown locations where a car is unnecessary and would be a hassle.

Plenty of suburban homes still have everything I need within biking distance — and most homeowners have a bike they’re happy to lend me. I’ve even had neighbors offer to drive me around or pick things up for me so I don’t have to carry groceries home. Of course, there’s always Lyft, Uber, and Zipcar.

Other times, homeowners lend me their car. Lots of families have two — or more — cars. Others simply have me drop them off and pick them up from the airport so I can use their car during my stay.

Roaming costs

If you’re house sitting in another country, make sure your credit card will work (and not charge foreign transaction fees) and you won’t get hit with an unexpected phone bill. I’ve found Google Fi to be convenient, since it saves me from having multiple SIM cards by offering inexpensive global coverage. I appreciate that my OnePlus has a dual SIM slot, so if coverage is spotty I can pause Fi, use a local SIM, and still use my main number through Google Voice.

Travel lifestyle creep

It’s normal to splurge a bit when you’re on vacation. No one wants to miss out on something cool because of the price tag. When you’re on vacation, you do a lot in a day and the costs add up quickly.

It’s different when you’re living normal life, just in a different place. Sure, I enjoy the sites in every place I visit, but I’m spreading it out over the length of time I’m there. I’m working full-time, so there’s no option to jam everything into one day and no need.

I spent quite a bit of money on touristy things during my first few months as a house sitter. The usual budget vacation tips can keep this under control, like going to free nights at a museum and using reciprocal memberships. Staying with a local often means the use of memberships and great tips for what’s worthwhile. The local library will often have free passes to local attractions, information about events at local universities, as well as their own events.

Most of my cut-able expenses were just going out to eat all the time. Eating out or going out drinking became less exciting the longer I traveled. This problem solved itself without my having to budget, because I got bored. This is especially true in cities where I don’t know a lot of people. When I’m reuniting with old friends I go out often, sure, but it evens out.

The more places I visit, the more I want to experience what’s unique about them. After a while I can’t remember which hipster restaurant is in which city, so now I usually skip them. The spots that provide local color are just as likely to be a hole in the wall as they are to be an exclusive restaurant. 

Once travel stops feeling like a vacation from real life and becomes your real life, it becomes easier to budget. At this point, the amount of money I spend going out is generally the same as when I was living in one place — or a little less.


It’s not required, but I leave a gift for my hosts. It doesn’t have to be lavish, it’s mostly an expression of appreciation. When someone treats me like a welcome guest and opens their home to me, I want to behave like a guest.


It can be time consuming to look at opportunities to house sit, apply, and coordinate it all. Even when homeowners reach out to me, I still have to check things out to make sure it’s a good fit. There are a lot of video calls and even in-person meetings. 

If you’ve ever looked for a job or done online dating, it can be a lot like that. I love looking through job postings, dating profiles, and house sit listings. A lot of people don’t.

Even when you arrive, there’s finding things in an unfamiliar kitchen and getting used to a different neighborhood. Figuring out what you can and can’t recycle. And learning the quirks of every pet! Oh, and actually taking care of the house and pets.

It gets easier after you learn what questions to ask and do it for a while. Occasionally I’ll still encounter an appliance I have to Google or some other strange house thing, but after years of CouchSurfing and home exchanges I can usually jump into any home and know how things work.

Sometimes it does feel like extra work, but most of the time I enjoy it. House sit notifications feel like a reminder of the endless opportunities to do something new. I really like meeting new people and am good at coordinating it all. I love exploring new places. 

Whenever it feels like a bit too much, I know it’s time to slow down my pace and find longer sits. There’s also nothing stopping me from simply going home, so long as I sort things out with my tenant first.

Opportunities that come with house sitting

The benefits of house sitting extend beyond saving money on housing and getting to hang out with other people’s pets. As a type of slow travel, house sitting provides opportunities that aren’t available to someone on a vacation.

Destination resolutions

People make a lot of fuss about New Year’s resolutions, but as a traveler, I enter each temporary home with a new resolution.

The world is eager to remind me that I can’t escape myself by traveling, but they seem to have little understanding of just how much our environment shapes our daily behaviors.

I’m the same person, certainly, but my days are different if I’m collecting eggs and watering horses than if I’m on the 35th floor of a Manhattan skyscraper and walking to my office in the mornings.

Every few weeks I not only have the opportunity to change my routines, it’s automatic. Any routines I maintain are through much effort, not rote.

Some of my resolutions are dictated by the home itself. The dietary restrictions of my hosts become my dietary restrictions while I’m in their home. I keep a Kosher kitchen, I become vegan, I go gluten free. When other people do this, they’re on crash diets. I’m simply respectful of my status as a guest and enjoy these minor challenges.

Dogs are excellent for fitness challenges. My daily step goal is adjusted up or down based on the critters I’m watching and how enticing the trails are. There is a certain collie who was quite pleased with my arbitrary decision to walk 200 miles in a month and how we blasted past it. 

Plenty of times my goals are silly. In New York I walked through every neighborhood, visited every wastewater treatment plant, and tried to eat my literal weight in tacos. I spent a month in Toronto visiting every one of the city historic museums. In Montreal I challenged myself to entertain myself for a month without going to any museums!

Other times my resolutions are more meaningful. Making a list of people to reconnect with, by phone or writing real letters sent through the postal system. I carve out time to watch the sunrise every morning. I walk the same beautiful path every day at lunchtime. My daily journaling goes from random musings to something more pointed. I reach out to a former client every week or submit proposals for new projects.

Sometimes I’ve chosen a house sit for the opportunity it poses for a resolution. I visit Boston to reconnect with old friends. I go to DC for a research project. I use my time in Raleigh to completely rewrite my immigration guide. I enjoy the quiet of Birmingham to write my tax guide and the solitude of the Berkshires to edit it. Setting my own schedule with work means I can arrange sits to match my workload — and not schedule anything big when I’m CouchSurfing between sits.

Plenty of us can fail at a resolution in 52 weeks. Almost all of us can achieve a resolution in three weeks or twelve.

Get involved with the community

When I’m spending several months in a place, I have the time to really get to know the community. Volunteering is a great way to do that.

It can be difficult to find the right volunteer opportunity, especially when you don’t have time to experiment. Your hosts might be able to point you in the right direction — you might even end up taking their shift at the foodbank while they travel!

Traveling slowly also gives me time to go to the sort of events that I wouldn’t prioritize if I only had a week in a place, like book readings, lectures, gallery openings, film screenings, and panel discussions. The death of the local weekly has made this a bit harder, but it’s still relatively easy to find event listings online.

Simple routines provide opportunities to meet locals. I end up saying hello to people while I’m out walking the dog, at the farmers market, and running other errands. Being new to a place means I always have advice and reccomendations to ask for. It’s easy enough to invite them to join me at whatever I’ll be up to that week and low pressure for them to accept or decline the invitation.

Not having a car in a car dependent place is a surprisingly effective way to get to know people. I interact with a lot more people simply by getting around on foot and using public transit. People commonly offer me rides home from events, which turns a few minutes of small talk into a potentially meaningful conversation. I get invited along to join family outings to local attractions and hikes by people who know it’d be difficult for me to get there on my own and want to show me what their area has to offer.

Discover who you are in a different place

Plenty of us have lived in different homes, but most often these moves are accompanied by major life changes. When friends give me recommendations for their college town or where they lived as young parents I can catch glimpses of these ghost selves.

House sitting gives me the opportunity to live in dozens of places while being as personally consistent as any human can be.

While I may be the same person, each home is welcoming to different aspects of that self. In some places I am on a first-name basis with a dozen neighbors by the close of the first week; in others three months has not gotten us past a cursory nod when we meet at the mailboxes. Sometimes I work my way through every bar and coffee shop I can access on foot and transit. Sometimes I am drawn to the same spot day after day. In others I become acquainted only with my backyard patio and the grocery store. It’s the city that creates these conditions; I am simply responding to them.

It is surprisingly hard for me to anticipate which places will feel best to inhabit. A home that is lovely in pictures may feel cold or cluttered in person. A charming main street may be full of expensive boutiques and tourists. The dive bar on the corner may be full of creepy drunks waiting for an excuse to ‘accidentally’ brush against me. A gorgeous forest preserve may be cluttered with irresponsible parents, of both the human and canine variety. The community organization I am so eager to join may be more of a private club.

Other times, stays inspired by a need to be in a certain location for work turn out to be lovely. I did not expect to enjoy staying in a gated golf course development, but I fell in love with the trails, the community at the clubhouse, and the invitations I got as a consequence of standing out (for being a quarter of a century younger than everyone else).

We morph to fit the boundaries of the world we live in. I am the same person in each place, but who I am is a small piece of how each of my days plays out. The tone of my life is colored by the space I inhabit, the way people respond to me, the things I have access to.

The idea that you cannot outrun your life is incredibly ahistorical. My ability to travel down a street safely is dictated by so many things, most of which have nothing to do with me and everything to do with patriarchy and colonialism. My ability to be welcomed into the homes of strangers is based on my age, gender, class, and abilities. I can strive all I want, but I cannot change the essential facts about myself that dictate the way the world responds to me. Each day I make choices from a range of opportunities, but I cannot decide what options I’m given.

Travel is certainly not the only way to discover a different version of yourself or understand how place shapes who you are. It is a very enjoyable way to do it.

Become more resilient

Some people are unflappable, while others need everything to go their way to keep their cool. In my work I encounter people whose perfectionism and fear of change turns the unavoidable challenges of the human condition into a crisis.

House sitting gives you the chance to step out of your comfort zone. You don’t need to go to a place with a strikingly different culture and language in order to experience a slightly different way of life. Finding your way around a new neighborhood, figuring out where to buy an item you need, and navigating a different transit system are all small ways to step out of your routine and practice embracing life’s small difficulties.

Following someone else’s routines is a great way to let go of perfectionism and recognize that there are many ways to do things. As a house sitter, I strive to replicate my host’s routine as much as possible. Few people consider why they do the things they do as they go about their chores. House sitting brings these automatic things to our conscious attention. I am fascinated by just how many different ways there are to wash dishes (although that’s one routine I don’t feel obligated to copy from my host).

Living in a new place and doing new things forces me to be a beginner. I have to struggle to figure things out, ask for help, and embrace looking foolish on a regular basis. The rewards far outweigh the embarrassment. It also keeps my ego in check.

After years of traveling, I’m much more confident in my ability to deal with whatever comes up. I’ve dealt with all sorts of home and pet issues. I’ve had strangers help me with all sorts of problems, large and small. I’ve encountered adventures in banking and paperwork as a consequence of living a slightly unconventional lifestyle. I’ve become more patient, even if I still have a ways to go.

The house sitting community

One of the best parts of house sitting has been getting to know other house sitters. Given our dispersed community, this mostly takes place on social media. It’s so fun seeing other house sitters I follow on Instagram posting from homes I’ve stayed in. We help each other find sits when plans change suddenly. When we end up in the same city, it’s an opportunity to get to know each other offline.

Besides Instagram, there are several active Facebook groups for house sitters:

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13 of the Strangest Places People Quarantined During the Pandemic https://remoteswap.club/13-of-the-strangest-places-people-quarantined-during-the-pandemic/ https://remoteswap.club/13-of-the-strangest-places-people-quarantined-during-the-pandemic/#respond Wed, 30 Sep 2020 03:10:59 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50677

The coronavirus pandemic has shaped many different aspects of our lives throughout the year so far, including how and where we live. When states began issuing shelter-in-place orders in March and restrictions were placed on various types of travel, a lot of us prepared to hunker down in our homes until it was safe to resume our “normal” everyday lives again (with many still waiting for this to happen). But not everyone was at home when these guidelines were put in place, and some people have since had to relocate somewhere with a mandatory quarantine period. This has resulted in people having to stay in some pretty unusual places around the world.

Read more in Reader’s Digest.

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That thing I packed and never used https://remoteswap.club/that-thing-i-packed-and-never-used/ https://remoteswap.club/that-thing-i-packed-and-never-used/#respond Mon, 14 Sep 2020 02:54:32 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50672 Somehow, no matter how much I travel and how light I pack, I always end up with something I never ended up using.

Often, the item that’s indispensable on one trip ends up being totally unnecessary on another. Other times it’s a product of hope — the adventure that didn’t materialize or the unexpected weather.

To help us avoid lugging around things we don’t need, I polled a group of women travelers and got well over 100 responses. Here are the takeaways:

Things people packed and never used

A go pro for the vlogging I didn’t do.

A fancy camera because I just took pictures on my phone.

Books because why read on a flight when you can watch movies?

A notebook for the journal I was totally going to keep.

A she-wee just in case the toilet was too horrifying to hover or squat.

Clothes & accessories

Workout clothes and a yoga mat because I had good intentions.

Makeup and nail polish because who cares?

High heels and a formal dress for the fancy night out that never happened.

Sneakers when it ended up raining and snowing the whole time.

Rain pants because it never rained.

Clothes I’d never worn before at home but was totally going to wear on vacation.

Either indispensable or dead weight, depending on your luck

Earplugs because airplanes and hostels.

Condoms because you never know.

My laptop and ipad because I didn’t work the whole time and can do everything I need on my phone.

An ethernet adapter in case the wifi sucks and I have work to do.

A neck pillow for the flight.

A silk sleep sack in case the sheets weren’t clean or I got cold on the flight.

A portable charger for my cell phone.

A first aid kit I never ended up needing, luckily.

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Adjusting to life at home after traveling https://remoteswap.club/adjusting-to-life-at-home-after-traveling/ https://remoteswap.club/adjusting-to-life-at-home-after-traveling/#respond Sun, 06 Sep 2020 19:32:14 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50667 It’s no secret that it’s a challenge to adjust to life in another country or life on the road. However, many people assume they’ll be able to pick up right where they left off when they return home.


It can be just as challenging to get back into the groove of life at home. All change, good and bad, can be difficult to get used to.

Especially if your foray into life as a digital nomad was cut short by an emergency flight home right before (or during!) lockdown.

Reverse culture shock for digital nomads

Returning home is a different experience for people who were abroad as digital nomads, backpackers, and people doing a working holiday than it is for people working as expats or studying abroad. You’ve gotten used to finding your way in a new place every few weeks or months and suddenly you’re settling into one place for the long-haul.

If you’re struggling to enjoy a life where your passport is gathering dust in a drawer and your airport lounge membership is going unused, try these ideas for embracing a life at home:

Enjoy what you missed

You probably dealt with homesickness while you were abroad. One way to help you jump into your new life at home is by making a list of all the things you missed — from peanut butter to your favorite dog walking spot — and making sure to enjoy one of them every day.

Be a tourist in your hometown

It’s easy to discover fascinating things about a foreign country. It’s also easy to assume you know everything there is to know about a place you’ve lived in for a long time.

So many of us have never been to local sights of interest — or haven’t been back since that primary school field trip. Check out museums and historic sights in your area. See what cafes, bars, and breweries have opened while you were gone. Even towns too small to support museums and theatres have community events hosted in other spaces.

No matter where you are, there are probably some great places to explore on day trips and weekend trips.

Plant seeds

Planting seeds, literally or figuratively, is a great way to make yourself feel rooted. Starting a garden or getting some houseplants can really make a place feel like home.

If you don’t have a green thumb, you can build a new nest by hanging up pictures of friends and adding other decorating touches to make your space feel like a place that’s yours.

Keep discovering new things

Traveling is full of experiences that push you to learn and discover — both about yourself and other cultures. There’s no need to leave home to have that sort of discovery. Try working your way through a cookbook, picking up that guitar you always meant to learn to play, or finding local spots to hike and bike.

Keep making new friends

Just because you’re once again within 30-minutes of your high school friends doesn’t mean you should stop meeting new people like you did when you were traveling. Sure, it’s a lot harder to meet people when your life is steady and stable, but it’s still possible.

The easiest way to build meaningful friendships without needing to be uncommonly gregarious is by getting involved with things that will bring you together with a small group of people you have things in common with on a regular basis. What this means depends on what you’re interested in. Maybe it means trying out for a community theatre role, volunteering at a school, getting involved with an arts organization, joining a community choir, joining a book club, taking up a sport, or getting a community garden plot.

If the thought of getting thrown in with a group seems a little intimidating, you can also check out Bumble BFF. It’s like Bumble’s dating app (in fact, it’s the same app, just with different settings enabled) only instead of potential dates it connects you with potential friends.

Take on a new project

You don’t need to be fresh out of a working holiday abroad to feel lost if you’re spending all day bored at home.

Some people intentionally leave themselves some time to adjust before starting a new job, enrolling in school, or whatever it is they plan on filling their days with. This can be a great opportunity to reconnect with friends and family, adjust to the time difference, and take care of the tedious paperwork that’s piled up while you were away. It can also be an opportunity to wallow on the couch, scrolling through your phone, tv blaring in the background, wondering why you came back.

If establishing and maintaining a routine isn’t your strength, signing up for things like fitness classes or volunteering can be a great way to make sure your calendar isn’t totally blank.

Projects can be a great way to keep from feeling like your life has become a monotonous routine and you might wake up and realize ten years have passed. By focusing on different projects — prepping for a marathon, then focusing on studying music for to get back up to speed, and then volunteering to plan an art festival — you can provide the sort of novelty we get from changing locations.

Stay international

So many of my CouchSurfing hosts have been former backpackers, expats, and other frequent travelers who’ve adapted to a life rooted in place. Hosting travelers through CouchSurfing is an easy way to meet people from all over the world and see your own city through fresh eyes.

Another great way to get a break from your native culture — and how weird and frustrating it now seems! — is to get involved with local cultural groups. My parents used to attend a monthly Kultur Abend where they’d take turns doing presentations on an aspect of Germanic culture and then hanging out eating familiar snacks and speaking German together. It’s easy to set something like this up with your friends, like a French movie night or themed dinner parties.

There are lots of more formal organizations, where you can volunteer with recent immigrants to help them get settled and improve their English.

To keep your language skills from getting rusty and to meet other travelers, check your local event listings to find language exchanges and other travel meetups.

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I Want Out: How to go abroad during COVID-19 https://remoteswap.club/i-want-out-how-to-move-abroad-during-covid-19/ https://remoteswap.club/i-want-out-how-to-move-abroad-during-covid-19/#respond Tue, 01 Sep 2020 21:13:40 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50653
Despite all the rhetoric that we need to #stayhome, there’s no requirement that you literally stay home.

Those whirlwind tours of 14 cities in 14 days are verboten, but it’s easy to travel while following all restrictions and guidelines for staying safe from the coronavirus. As long as we’re dealing with COVID-19, we’re going to be in an era of slow travel.

The type of travel people typically do on vacation — jumping from one tourist trap to another, going out to eat for every meal, staying in a different hotel in a different city every night — is incredibly risky. Slow travel is simply living life in another city, so it’s no riskier than staying home.

While there’s a level of risk in getting on an airplane, train, bus, or even driving long distances, there are ways to mitigate these risks. When you’re changing locations every few months — or every year — the risk is further reduced.

As long as we're dealing with COVID-19, we're going to be in an era of slow travel
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Most countries with borders closed to tourism are still processing other types of visas: work permits, non-working visas, permanent resident applications, and new visas created specifically to attract digital nomads for long-term stays. And, of course, a growing number of countries are welcoming tourists from some or all nations.

While my plans for 2020 were disrupted by the pandemic, I’m still traveling full-time. Now that we’ve had time to adjust to the new (and continually updating) guidelines, it’s possible to get started on your next adventure.

Responsible travel during the age of COVID-19 means:

  • building quarantines into your timeline,
  • getting tested before getting on a plane, bus, or train,
  • choosing destinations where you’ll be able to live the life you want while following guidelines, and
  • reducing the number of people you’re coming into contact with to reduce the likelihood you’ll be part of the spread.

Things you need for long-term travel:

  • A passport that won’t expire while you’re traveling
  • A clean criminal record (If you don’t have this, you’ll want to consult a professional)
  • Whatever documents are required for any visa you’re applying for
  • Heath insurance that’s valid for the country you’ll be staying in

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Digital nomad visas

Countries including Barbados have visa programs specifically for remote workers. Several countries, including Georgia and Croatia, have announced that they’ll be welcoming remote workers for long-term visas, but details haven’t been released yet.

You can apply for the Barbados Welcome Stamp online. There’s a US$2k processing fee (or US$3k for families). A week after you submit it, you’ll be approved to live in Barbados for a year and aren’t subject to income taxes in Barbados. You’re eligible to re-apply to extend your stay.

Bermuda now has a one year residency program for digital nomads. The application fee is $263.

Estonia’s digital nomad visa has a processing fee of only US$125. Applicants must be able to show a monthly income of US$4,150 or higher to qualify.

Other countries permit digital nomads to work remotely while on a tourist visa, including: Bermuda and Mexico. Some popular digital nomad destinations, like Thailand and the Schengen Zone, do not allow people to work remotely while on a tourist visa.

Freelance visas & self-employment visas

You don’t need to have a boss to get a work permit. If you’re self employed you can still qualify for a work visa.

Berlin and Prague are famous for freelance visas. They’re national programs, so there’s no need to only settle in the most famous cities.

Other popular destinations for self employment visas include Spain, Italy, Portugal, Dubai, and Japan.

The Dutch American Friendship Treaty is a unique program to allow Americans to start a business in Holland with very minimal requirements. Here’s how one freelancer got her DAFT visa and some FAQs.

If you own a business or have access to investment funds to start one, many countries have visa and permanent resident programs for investors and entrepreneurs.

Work permits

If you can get your company to transfer you to another office you have access to an easy work visa. Your employer’s attorneys will take care of the details for you and hopefully provide a relocation consultant.

Nearly any country will give you a work permit if you have a job offer. Most countries require your potential employer to meet certain requirements, like demonstrating that they tried to hire a local, showing you have unique skills, and paying fees.

Working holiday visas

If you’re under 35, you may quality for a working holiday visa. The programs open to you depend on your citizenship. Different programs have different requirements: the age cut-off, what kinds of jobs you can take, how long you can work in one place, and if you can renew the visa.

If you’re looking for help arranging a working holiday visa or work exchange and managing the paperwork, Bunac or Swap can set things up for you.

Some of these programs are processing applications while others are on hold. See what countries your nationality has youth work exchange agreements with and verify that the programs are accepting and processing applications.

International Experience Canada is not currently accepting new applications, but some people who were already approved for an IEC visa are allowed to enter. Check for updates on the IRCC website.

Teaching English

You don’t need a degree or training in order to get a job teaching English abroad. South Korea, China, Japan, Taiwan, and the UAE are known for providing lucrative teaching opportunities. Many include flights, health insurance, and housing.

Right now many schools have recruiting on hold, are only recruiting people already within the country, or are only accepting applications from certain countries. While options are limited, there are still schools recruiting on Dave’s ESL Cafe and TEFL.com. The COVID-19 TEFL Forum on Facebook is full of information on what countries are processing visa applications and what it’s like for English teachers in different locations.

Some countries require you have a passport from certain countries (typically the United States, UK, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, and Canada) to get a visa. Countries that are open to fluent English speakers of any nationality include: Argentina, Brazil, Cambodia, Chile, China, Colombia, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Japan, Mexico, Panama, Peru, Thailand, and Turkey.

Some countries require a TESOL, TEFL, or CELTA certificate. These courses vary wildly in price (from $20 to $1500), length of time (120 hours is considered the minimum for many schools), and quality. Some are done entirely online while others are entirely in-person and include experience teaching.

Some countries require you have a 4-year degree (like a BA or BS) in any topic. Countries that don’t require a degree include Cambodia, Costa Rica, Egypt, Italy, Laos, Myanmar, Mexico, Peru, Russia, South Korea, and Spain. Some countries will accept a 2-year degree (or the first two years of a 4-year degree program) when paired with TEFL certification.

In each country there are four layers of requirements that are each slightly different: to get a visa, for government schools, for private schools, and for language centers. Generally language schools have the least stringent requirements for applicants, but you’ll still need to qualify for a visa.

The medical exam requirements may be different right now, so check that you’re getting current information.

English isn’t the only language people are looking to learn. If you’re fluent in another language, check out the foreign teaching opportunities open to you.


Working as an au pair is a great way to escape the tourist bubble and become part of the local community. Positions generally include room and board and a little bit of spending money. Au Pair World and Interexchange are keeping applicants up to date on what countries are placing nannies and what it’s like for people nannying during the pandemic.

Student visas

Going back to school is an easy way to stay in another country legally for longer than a tourist visa will allow. Many countries allow students to work part-time and some allow you to bring your family. You don’t necessarily need to enroll in a university degree program, as often language schools, trade schools, and certificate programs also qualify you for a student visa. It’s often possible to get a work permit after graduation and eventually obtain citizenship.

It’s still possible to get a student visa, even with many schools going partially or fully-remote. Check specific country and school requirements.

Non-working visas

A number of countries welcome residents who don’t need a job because they have an income source from outside of the country. While these programs are most popular with retirees, not all countries require you be “retirement age.” The monthly income requirement can seem quite reasonable, depending on the cost of living in your country of origin. If you have disability income, Social Security payments, a pension, an Armed Forces pension, or annuities, you can qualify. Sometimes rental income, income from businesses you own, stock market returns, and other passive income can qualify.

These programs may or may not be open to people doing remote work in other countries (ie. earned income instead of passive income). Check carefully to make sure any work you’re doing will be legal.

Countries with non-work residency programs include:

Long-term tourist stays

It might seem like your passport is useless, but there are countries with open borders. You can view the current map on World Nomads. Even if a country doesn’t require you to quarantine and get tested, it’s wise to do so. Before you go, make sure your travel insurance covers medical expenses related to COVID-19.

Albania welcomes tourists for up to a year, but you need a work permit for remote work. Bermuda has extended tourist visas from 90 to 180 days because of COVID-19. Mexico allows tourists to stay six months. You can also apply to have your tourist visa extended in some countries.

Bali’s tourist visa is only valid for 30 days, with the possibility of a 30 day extension. Jamaica also only gives tourists 30 days. The visa runs that used to be simple are no longer a safe option, so stick to countries where you can legally settle in for long stays.

Working remotely on a tourist visa is a gray area for many countries. It’s always wise to disclose to border control that your plan is to work remotely and ask if that’s permitted. The safest way to live abroad on a tourist visa is to rely on passive income (like rental income, business investments, book sales, stock dividends, etc).

If you’re living on a limited budget, you can keep expenses low by house sitting and WWOOFing. With house sitting you get free housing in exchange for keeping an eye on things, which often includes yard and pet care. WWOOFing provides room and board in exchange for around four hours a day of farm work. Because no money is exchanged this doesn’t count as work and doesn’t require a work permit. This means that you will not be able to enter countries for house sitting, WWOOFing, or other non-monetary trade programs if tourism is banned because of COVID-19.

There are fewer house sitting opportunities due to the pandemic, but the ones that are being listed tend to be long-term. Farms that are accepting WWOOFers typically have plans for having workers quarantine on arrival and following guidelines during their stay.

Permanent residency as a skilled worker

Some countries encourage people to build a life in their country, rather than simply spend a few years there working. Depending on the country you’re moving to and your country of origin, you might be able to obtain dual citizenship. Dual citizenship ensures you can return to that country at any point in the future (as well as other rights and responsibilities) while many countries will revoke your permanent resident status if you are out of the country for a certain amount of time.

The European Union

If you’ve worked temporarily within the European Economic Area (EEA), you may qualify for the Blue Card. This program allows temporary workers in any EEA country to work in any other EEA country, as well as eventually become permanent residents. There’s also the Czech Green Card.


You can apply for a Skilled Migration Visa and become a permanent resident using Skill Select. You can apply for a Skilled Independent Visa, Skilled Nominated Visa, or Skilled Regional Visa. If you meet the requirements for a Skilled Independent Visa, you can become a permanent resident without a job offer or family sponsorship. See if you qualify using their points system.


If you’re a young professional or work in a skilled trade, chances are you can move to Canada as a permanent resident through Express Entry. Your odds are even better if you’re currently living in Canada or if you’ve lived in Canada before, such as on an IEC visa or as a student. You’ll either need proof that you can support yourself while you look for a job or a valid job offer.

New Zealand

If you’re under 55, you may qualify for New Zealand’s Skilled Migrant Category. You can take this quiz to see if you’re eligible or calculate your points yourself.

Traveling in your home country

Even if you decide to remain in your own country, it doesn’t mean you have to continue living where you’re living right now. There was a massive shuffling of the population when countries went under lockdown, leaving many furnished housing options in university towns and tourist hotspots. That’s how I ended up spending the summer outside of Banff National Park instead of trying to return to Toronto (where I also didn’t have a place to stay) or staying with my parents (which would have required finding travel insurance that covered covid-19).

Before the pandemic, I typically spent 1-3 months in each place, but I often stopped off in a few different cities between long-term stays. I also thought nothing of taking public transit between and within cities. Now my pace of travel has slowed dramatically. While I’ve been in three different cities since the pandemic started, they’ve all been in the same economic region. Normally it’s easy to meet people and get involved in the community. While it’s a lot more challenging now, I’ve been able to do a lot of hiking and even volunteering.

Farms that rely on WWOOFers are seeing very few applications in countries that aren’t open to tourists. If you’ve ever been curious about what it’s like to work on a farm, this is a great time to explore your own country (or countries you can legally enter).

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An escape guide for Americans https://remoteswap.club/escape-guide-americans/ https://remoteswap.club/escape-guide-americans/#comments Fri, 24 Jul 2020 08:30:41 +0000 http://15miles.info/?p=12600

An escape guide for Americans

There are a lot of reasons you might want to leave the US.

First, do you have a passport? If the answer is no, you can’t get started on any of these options. Getting your passport is the very first step.

Second, if you have a criminal record, most of these options will be closed to you. You’ll want to consult an immigration attorney to discuss your options.

I’m assuming you don’t have enough money to qualify for an investor program. Nor do you have family to sponsor you for resident status in another country. Nor do you qualify for citizenship through descent.

Lots of people talk about wanting citizenship in another country. That’s almost never how it works. Most people begin as temporary residents, then permanent residents, and eventually become citizens. Some countries will allow you to skip directly to permanent resident status if you meet certain qualifications.

Before we get started: I’m not an immigration attorney, I’m someone who’s interested in living abroad who obsessively researches things. You should verify things yourself before making major life decisions.

I’ll be updating this post and adding to it as I continue to research. If I’m missing something, feel free to mention it in the comments and I’ll add it in.

For a more complete list of your options, check out Mark Ehrman’s excellent book, Getting Out.


Permanent Options

Most countries will allow family members to sponsor you for resident status. They’ll typically have to show that they can support you for a certain amount of time and may need to meet other requirements. I’m going to assume that you, like me, don’t have any family members who can sponsor you and aren’t married to a foreign national.


Skilled Worker Programs

The Europe Economic Area

If you’ve worked temporarily within the European Economic Area (EEA), you may qualify for the Blue Card. This program allows temporary workers in any EEA country to work in any other EEA country, as well as eventually become permanent residents. There’s also the Czech Green Card<.


You can apply for a Skilled Migration Visa and become a permanent resident using Skill Select. You can apply for a Skilled Independent Visa, Skilled Nominated Visa, or Skilled Regional Visa. If you meet the requirements for a Skilled Independent Visa, you can become a permanent resident without a job offer or family sponsorship. See if you qualify using their points system.


If you’re a young professional or work in a skilled trade, chances are you can move to Canada as a permanent resident through Express Entry. You’ll either need proof that you can support yourself while you look for a job or a valid job offer. See if you qualify.

This is a program I’ve immigrated through myself, so I can confirm that the estimated 6 month processing time is accurate.

New Zealand

If you’re under 55, you may qualify for New Zealand’s Skilled Migrant Category. You can take this quiz to see if you’re eligible or calculate your points yourself.

Countries to Retire to

Quite a few countries are happy to welcome you if you have a retirement fund, or even just Social Security income. This has long been a way for retirees to enjoy a higher standard of living for less money. Generally, retirees are given temporary visas and after renewing them a certain number of times you can apply for permanent resident status.

Some countries require people to be “retirement age” in order to qualify, but others don’t. In countries with a lower cost of living than the US, the monthly income requirement can seem quite reasonable. If you have disability income, Social Security payments, a pension, an Armed Forces pension, or annuities, you can qualify. Sometimes rental income, income from businesses you own, stock market returns, or showing significant savings, and other passive income can qualify.

A few countries will allow people who are self-employed or work remotely to qualify for their retiree visa programs.

Countries that welcome retirees include:

Entrepreneur & Investor visas

You may not think of yourself as someone who has enough money to qualify as a business investor, but many countries offer investment and entrepreneur visas that are within the grasp of many Americans.

Some investor visas don’t require you run a company, they only ask that you invest in their country. Buying a nice house may be enough to get you a resident permit.

If you’ve always dreamed of owning your own business or simply want to buy your dream house, here are some options to consider:

Temporary Options

Temporary Work Permit

The dream is always to get your company to transfer you to another office. This is fairly easy, especially because your employer’s attorneys will take care of the details for you and hopefully provide a relocation consultant.

Nearly any country will give you a work permit if you have a job offer. Most countries require your potential employer to jump through hoops, like demonstrating that they tried to hire a local, showing you have unique skills, and paying fees.

You can also get self-employment visas, artist visas, research visas, and non-earning visas. If you’re a remote worker, you may fall under different visa categories, depending on what country you’re trying to get a visa for.

In Ireland, you can get a work permit for 2 years with a job offer, which is renewable indefinitely. After 5 years of residency you can apply for citizenship.

Freelance Visas

Berlin and Prague are famous for freelance visas. Remember, they’re national programs, so there’s no need to only settle in the most famous cities.

Your other options include Spain, Italy, Portugal, Dubai, and Japan.

The Italian freelance visa can be a challenge.

Work remotely

Some countries are happy to give you resident permits if you can prove that you have a steady income. This is popular among retirees, but it’s also perfect for people who work remotely.

Countries including Barbados have visa programs specifically for remote workers.

Georgia has announced that it will be welcoming remote workers for a year-long visa, but details haven’t been released yet.

Working remotely while on a tourist visa

Working remotely on a tourist visa is a gray area for many countries. It’s always wise to disclose to border control that your plan is to work remotely and ask if that’s permitted.

Quite a few places won’t specifically say that they offer residency permits for people with external income, but people have gotten residency permits without serious hurdles.


The Non-Habitual Resident visa allows you to live in Portugal without working. It allows you to stay in the country for up to 10 years and can be renewed. You get special tax status.


The non-lucrative visa prohibits you from undertaking any type of work or professional activity in Spain, but you are able to continue working remotely for an American employer and can perform freelance work for clients located outside of Spain. While each consulate might have slightly different requirements for the non-lucrative visa, there are numerous examples of Americans that have spoken to officials at their local Spanish consulate and were told that working remotely for their US employer is ok. Just be sure to be up front about your intention to work when applying for the visa to avoid any confusion.


This is not listed as an option in official documents, but people have done it.


Start a business

The Dutch American Friendship Treaty is a unique program to allow Americans to start a business in Holland with very minimal requirements. Here’s how one freelancer got her DAFT visa and some FAQs.

If you decide to become a Dutch citizen, you’ll have to renounce your US citizenship.

If you can get access to investment funds, you can get an Entrepreneur Visa in the UK. You can become an entrepreneur in Canada with a net worth of $250k (or more if you want to go to a popular province).

Teach English

You probably know someone who’s taught English abroad. You may know someone who went to teach English for a year and never came back.

South Korea, China, Japan, Taiwan, and the UAE are known for providing lucrative teaching opportunities. Many include flights, health insurance, and housing.

You don’t need a degree or a TEFL certificate to teach English abroad, although it certainly helps. Dave’s ESL Cafe is the place to find out about how it works and find jobs.

Work as an Au Pair

An au pair is typically a young person (most often women) who takes care of children, cooks meals, and does some housework. Positions generally include room and board and a little bit of spending money.

Work Exchange

If you’re over 18 and under 35, you can work abroad for 6 or more months. You’ll generally need to show that you can support yourself while looking for a job and have your own health insurance. The visa fees are generally quite low and it’s a lot cheaper than doing a study abroad program.

If you’re looking for help arranging a work exchange and managing the paperwork, Bunac or Swap can set things up for you.

If you’re interested in staying after your visa is up, you have the chance to build your professional network in hopes of getting an employer to sponsor you for a new visa. You may also find a new love interest who would like to keep you in the country.

Here’s the scoop from a friend of mine who moved to New Zealand after doing multiple working holiday visas:

Americans should apply directly through either the New Zealand or Australia immigration sites for working holiday. You can do it all on the application, no need for proof of funds or anything else. Each time I got approved in less than 24 hours. After my WHV expired in NZ I got a work visa through partnership with my boyfriend (family category), which is probably the easiest way to immigrate assuming you have an actual partner, opposite or same sex. You don’t have to get married (same in Australia) and there’s no real time limit on how long you’ve been together, but you should be living together. – Melissa B.


Australia recently expanded its work and holiday visa to include people up to the age of 35. You can stay for a year, but you can only work for 6 months for any one employer. Your significant other will have to get their own visa and you cannot bring any dependent children. US citizens can apply online.


As an American, you’ll need to work with an approved organization to participate in International Experience Canada. Their working holiday visa is an open work permit. A young professional or international co-op visa is applied to a particular employer. You can do this through the age of 35.


Ireland’s Intern Work and Travel Pilot Programme allows US citizens to spend up to 12 months working in Ireland. You must either be a current full-time student or have graduated within the last year.

New Zealand

The New Zealand Working Holiday Visa is open to Americans 18-30 years old. It lasts for 12 months typically, or 18 months if you’re working in agriculture or horticulture.


The Singapore Work Holiday Programme is good for up to 6 months. You can apply for a new pass 12 months after your old pass expired. You need to be a student or recent graduate.

South Korea

You’ll need to be a student or recent graduate in order to participate in the Working Holiday Program in Korea. You’ll have to plan your trip, too, and provide a plan for where you’ll be living and traveling. If you’re 18-30, you can stay for up to 18 months.

Go to School Abroad

It’s generally relatively simple to get a student visa to attend university abroad — and there are no age limits. The tricky part is going to be the financing.

Luckily, FAFSA does fund some international universities. There are scholarships available, too. And, of course, some universities are free or very affordable. You can compare European schools for bachelors, masters and PhD programs. Many universities offer programs in English.

The best course of action is to contact the specific universities you’re interested in, as they’ll provide advice for obtaining a visa and financial assistance.

Many countries make it possible to get a work permit after graduation. Here’s how studying abroad in Canada can provide a pathway to citizenship. New Zealand has a similar process.

Don’t like any of these options? Check Just Landed and Getting Out for information on additional countries and visa types.

Before you start packing your things, take a step back to think about what’s important to you. Common concerns include:

  • Employment opportunities in your field
  • Quality, affordable healthcare
  • Quality, affordable education
  • Diversity
  • LGBTQ rights and gender equality
  • Affordable housing
  • Low crime rates
  • Low tax rates
  • Climate
  • Transportation
  • Cultural institutions

Deciding where to move to is a big decision. Here are some ways to look before you leap:

Other resources that you’ll find helpful:

Countries that speak English

You know that Canada, Australia, Ireland, New Zealand, South Africa, and the UK all speak English. Don’t forget about Belize, Malta, Anguilla, Barbados, Grenada, Jamaica, Dominica, Trinidad and Tobago, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Guyana, Saint Lucia, the Bahamas, the Cayman Islands, Botswana, Ghana, Liberia, Namibia, Saint Helena, Zambia, Cameroon, Kenya, Malawi, Nigeria, Seychelles, Swaziland, Zimbabe, the Gambia, Lesotho, Mauritius, Rwanda, Sierra Leone, Uganda and Fiji.

Quite a few other countries have a population that is largely fluent in English. These include the Netherlands, Sweden, Denmark, Belgium, Norway, Finland, Germany, Portugal, Austria, Iceland, Croatia, Slovenia, Poland, France, Bulgaria, India, Israel, Romania, Switzerland, Morocco, Pakistan, the Philippines, Italy, the Czech Republic, Singapore, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, Thailand.

Things to know before you move abroad

What’s the difference between an expat and an immigrant? Technically, an expat is anyone who’s living outside their country of nationality. Generally, an expat is living abroad temporarily and an immigrant has made a permanent move.


As a US citizen, you have to file taxes in the US, even if you’re a resident of another country and never step foot on US soil. While this is certainly a burden, it’s unlikely that you’ll face double taxation. The first $95k (adjusted each year) of your income is exempt from taxes in the US and there are a number of deductions available for Americans living abroad. If you’re married, you get double the exemption. Thus, if someone is complaining about double taxation they either a) have a really bad accountant and/or b) just told you they make over $100k a year. Cue up the tiny violins.

You’ll likely want to choose a country that has a tax treaty with the US or a country that won’t tax your foreign income.

A lot of information out there on moving abroad is designed to minimize taxation. Before you fall down the rabbit hole of the Five Flags Theory and start offshoring all your savings, think about what sorts of perks living in a high tax country (like Canada and the EU countries) provides. Do you want access to universal healthcare, high quality public schools, affordable universities, disability insurance, subsidized housing, enforced building codes, fire protection, police protection and other perks? You might decide elaborate tax-avoidance planning isn’t for you.

Health care & social safety net

Some countries place restrictions on non-citizen’s access to healthcare and the social safety net. Generally, permanent residents have nearly all the rights of citizens, but retiree permanent resident options have restrictions.

Even if your visa or residency type gives you access to healthcare and other support, it may not kick in right away. Make sure you have insurance coverage and plans in place to fill the gap.

Retirement savings

If you’re not retiring abroad, you’ll want to be putting money away for your eventual retirement. If you’re employed by a company in your new home, you may have access to the equivalent of a 401k.

You can’t contribute to your IRA unless you have taxable income in the US — meaning if you’re slightly over that $95k tax exemption you can max out your IRA first and avoid owing anything.

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Quarantine reads to embrace staying home https://remoteswap.club/quarantine-reads-for-embracing-home/ https://remoteswap.club/quarantine-reads-for-embracing-home/#respond Tue, 07 Apr 2020 17:02:39 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50570 People are eagerly sharing tips on how to “travel without leaving home.” What about accepting where we are? Is travel about finding the “exotic” or is it a way of seeing the world?

As Jonathan Franzen reminds us, “The first lesson reading teaches is how to be alone.”

Here are a few books to help you uncover the magic of living in the present.

A Journey Round My Room & A Nocturnal Expedition Round My Room, Xavier de Maistre

Xavier de Maistre spent six weeks exploring his room in A Journey Round My Room and was excited enough about the journey to write a sequel.

My Year of Rest and Relaxation, Ottessa Moshfegh

Moshfegh’s book is a reminder that some people dream of staying at home for a year. You, too, can have a photographer deliver you pizza.

At Home, Bill Bryson

Your house is probably not as grand as Bryson’s old parsonage, but you can still use your studio apartment as a jumping off point to explore the history of the world. At Home explains how we ended up with the type of houses, and lives, that we have.

Bryson’s books are easy reads, so when you finish at home you can dig into Made in America, The Mother Tongue, and The Body.

Consider the Fork: A History of How We Cook and Eat, Bee Wilson

While you’re waiting for your sourdough to bake, you can learn the history of food. Wilson’s Consider the Fork is one of many delightful books on the history of the foods we take for granted, like SaltCodButter, and An Edible History of Humanity.

Pigeons: The Fascinating Saga of the World’s Most Revered and Reviled Bird, Andrew D. Blechman 

You don’t need to go anywhere to experience nature. Blechman’s book shares the story of his own neighborhood wanderings and answers some of those questions I’ve wondered idly about these birds that are so common it’s easy to stop paying attention.

If you can’t get enough of birds, there’s also Crow Planet: Essential Wisdom from the Urban Wilderness. and The Urban Bestiary: Encountering the Everyday Wild, both by Lyanda Lynn Haupt.

Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies, Jared Diamond

If you’re eager to know what the world will be like after social distancing is no longer necessary, close the tab on those speculative Medium articles and pick up Guns, Germs, and Steel.

Solitary, Albert Woodfox

If you need a little perspective on your time stuck at home, Woodfox’s memoir of forty years in solitary confinement is the answer.

This is a good time to pick up Diary of a Young Girl, especially if you haven’t read it since primary school, or the more recent Zlata’s Diary. The War Within uses diaries to tell the story of the siege of Leningrad. There are countless diaries and memoirs from people living under siege, during wartime, in prison, and in hiding — many of which are available as ebooks.

There are also numerous memoirs of people who are homebound by their health, most notable being The Diving Bell and the ButterflyFierce Attachments is more applicable to most of our lives.

If you’re feeling inspired to write your own memoirs, I’m a huge fan of Mary Karr’s book on the topic.

Local history books

Perhaps you’re in the city you’ve lived in forever or waiting out the end of the world in your childhood bedroom. It’s so easy to know more about cities we’ve visited for a week than our own hometown. Your local library probably has online resources and a reading list for you to explore the ground under your feet (and the local historic places you can walk to while maintaining distancing requirements).

Prisoners of Geography: Ten Maps That Explain Everything About the World, Tim Marshall

If you’re feeling concerned about borders being closed, Prisoners of Geography can provide solace that borders change, open, and close.

The Dog Stars

If you want to embrace the pandemic apocalypse, Peter Heller’s dystopian novel is what you’re looking for. While there’s plenty of action (and by “action” I mean violence) there’s also a lot of meditation on life.

Pale Rider: The Spanish Flu of 1918 and How It Changed the World

Laura Spinney’s Pale Rider tells the obsessively researched history of the Spanish flu in a way that’s both global and personal. While other histories of the 1918 pandemic provide dramatic stories about doctors and researchers determining the cause and history of the virus, Spinney focuses on the story of how that virus has changed the course of world history and our lives today.

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Staying home when going home isn’t an option https://remoteswap.club/staying-home-when-going-home-isnt-an-option/ https://remoteswap.club/staying-home-when-going-home-isnt-an-option/#respond Tue, 31 Mar 2020 18:52:17 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50563 The news is listing off a daily COVID-19 death toll. The world has shut down to prevent the spread of SARS-CoV-2. Everyone is frantically learning to adapt to working from home, homeschooling kids, living without cleaners, personal care assistants, and someone else to prepare dinner. People who thought they had their lives planned out are suddenly learning how fickle the world can be.

My fellow travelers are posting #tbt pics while bemoaning being stuck at home and sharing tips on getting refunds for cancelled flights.

But nothing in my life has changed yet.

Coronavirus had already been in the news for months when I got on a flight to Calgary a few weeks ago. People were being encouraged to work from home if they could and told to reconsider going out if they didn’t have to. I already worked remotely and work was keeping me busy, but I did still walk to a friend’s house for dinner. The couple I’d been house sitting for were required to self-quarantine at home for 14 days once they arrived back in Toronto, but the timing of their arrival home and my departure already ensured we wouldn’t cross paths.

A few friends expressed concern about my flying from Toronto to Calgary, but my house sit in Calgary was still on and I didn’t have a place to stay in Toronto, anyway. Even though the first coronavirus case in Ontario dated back to January, there were no warnings about domestic travel. While the airport was quiet, it reminded me of flying in the 90s, before every flight was overbooked.

My phone is full of people in various stages of grief and hysteria, but my life didn’t feel any different. Or it’s different, sure, but it’s always different. Whatever little routine I maintain while traveling full-time is still in place.

I arrived in Calgary on a Friday. The city was quiet, a few places were closed, but nothing seemed unusual. On Saturday the museums I’d planned on going to were all closed and the weather was brutally cold. The university was open, though, with its art gallery, cafes, and library, and my CouchSurfing host gave me a ride. Aside from that, I spent the weekend with my CouchSurfing hosts. We shared meals and sat around the fire, chatting about anything and everything. Maybe I was home with them instead of hitting Calgary’s tourist spots, but we had a good time together. Part of the CouchSurfing experience is about going with the flow, so I’d hardly arrived with an itinerary.

While I enjoyed getting to meet the women I was house sitting for, I’ll admit it was a relief when they headed to the airport. Trudeau had already told tourists to come home immediately and some countries had stopped issuing tourist visas, so I wasn’t sure if my house sit was really going to happen or how long it would last.

Every few weeks I switch from one home to another. I set up an improvised standing desk and settle into a new routine. There’s a new neighborhood, an unfamiliar grocery store, often a new transit system. I usually break my work and personal projects into chunks, based on where I am. Sometimes I flit around a city, visiting friends, conducting interviews, meeting people, and going to events. Sometimes I bask in solitude and the deep focus it encourages, only going out for long walks and the occasional trip into town for supplies. Most of the time it’s somewhere between these two extremes.

So, we’re a month into the era of social distancing and nothing in my routine has changed yet.

Yes, I had quite a few meetings and even future house sits cancelled, but my life is always a constantly evolving game of Tetris. I often plan sits six months or even a year in advance, but there are always last minute changes. I’m staying in people’s homes, so when their plans change my plans do, too.

Because I’ve never seen Calgary pre-pandemic, it’s hard for me to understand how the city is different. If I were in New York or Toronto — or really, any city I’d been to before — I would see how the amount of traffic has changed or find it strange to see things closed. But for me, this version of Calgary feels normal.

Despite the number of nagging messages I’m getting chiding me for not staying home, I feel like I’m doing a better job of following safety guidelines than the vast majority of people.

Quite a few people booked last minute flights home to be with their family of origin once borders started closing, even those who were seemingly settled into a life abroad. I kept finding myself having to explain that no, I was not going back to Toronto, where I would either have to rent an apartment or stay with friends for an indefinite length of time. No, I was not going to fly to New York, the center of the pandemic in North America, to stay with my parents. To repatriate to the US now means forfeiting access to health care, since I have health insurance through Ontario, which would not cover me if I chose to leave the country while the border is closed. It seems confusing that #stayhome is being interpreted to include getting on an airplane and hanging out with anyone in my family tree.

It’s easy to maintain social distance when I work remotely and arrived not knowing anyone in the entire province. It’d be harder to follow recommendations if I was staying with family or friends. Yes, I’m physically all alone, but with the community of CouchSurfers, house sitters, and generally caring people in the world, quite a few locals are calling and texting to check in on me. I hardly feel alone.

I already spent a lot of my free time reading and going on long walks. I’m an evangelist for ebooks and audiobooks — and have a shelf full of books from my host. I’m already used to keeping in touch with friends, family, and my work team from a distance. I’ve been working remotely for a while now. The amount of time I spend debating the right amount of groceries to buy for a sit feels slightly less ridiculous when other people are hoarding, but I’m used to adapting my diet to what’s available in one region or another and there’s plenty of food in Calgary.

At a certain point, all of this solitude will presumably feel less cozy and more confining. But right now it feels like the rest of the world is falling into chaos, while I’m in a bubble of normal life.

I know people are suffering and dying, I’m not here to diminish the situation. But the ways life is deeply tragic while still being beautiful is something I already face every day. I spend my days talking to people about their experiences with the medical industrial complex, exploring social determinants of health, the failures of policy, and building systems of mutual aid.

I find that my ability to predict my future is like our ability to predict the weather. I can pretty well know what the weather will be like tomorrow and I can anticipate the seasons, but when it comes to next week I’m just guessing.

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Early retirement: What happens when the unexpected occurs? https://remoteswap.club/early-retirement-what-happens-when-the-unexpected-occurs/ https://remoteswap.club/early-retirement-what-happens-when-the-unexpected-occurs/#respond Mon, 23 Dec 2019 20:30:25 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50400

Financial independence and early retirement – known as the FIRE movement – requires devotees to relentlessly save, tirelessly work, and aggressively invest to free themselves of a full-time job by their 30s, 40s, or 50s.

Despite their best-laid plans, what happens when life happens to these FIRE adherents?

Setbacks such as divorce or an unplanned pregnancy could mean surprise expenses in the tens of thousands of dollars that may require a budget overhaul or new stream of income. An ill-timed crash in the stock market could undo years of meticulous saving and investing, extending the months or years until early retirement.

It was July 2017 when Cori Carl was separating from her wife. The pair had been working towards early retirement, but those plans came to a halt as they worked out their divorce.

Read more on Yahoo Money.

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The best books I read in 2019 https://remoteswap.club/the-best-books-i-read-in-2019/ https://remoteswap.club/the-best-books-i-read-in-2019/#respond Fri, 29 Nov 2019 04:52:23 +0000 https://remoteswap.club/?p=50144 To celebrate releasing the fourth edition of Moving to Canada and my 2019 Cross Border Tax Guide, here are the books I’ve found fascinating recently:

Understanding Canada

A History of Canada in Ten Maps

It’s a challenge to find books on the history of Canada that are engaging for those of us who were awake for history classes in high school and college. A History of Canada in Ten Maps was fantastically helpful for filling in the gaps in my knowledge of Canadian history. Each map is paired with a compelling narrative about the exploration that led to its production.

The Civil War of 1812

Textbooks and history classes so often make the eventual outcome seem inevitable, even pre-ordained. Taylor’s book tells the story of a war most of us Americans have barely thought about and reveals the myriad possible futures of a very different Great Britain, Canada, and United States.

Understanding America

The Way We Never Were

We hear a lot about American values and traditions, usually in political speeches and ‘kids these days’ complaints. In The Way We Never Were Stephanie Coontz burns these to the ground and shows us what Americans were really like.

The Half Has Never Been Told

I picked up this book with a reasonable background on the history of slavery in America, but there is a particular impact of understanding the details of how American capitalism was constructed to meet the needs of slaveholders. The Half Has Never Been Told left me with so many questions about the banal legal details of slavery in accounting and taxation. There’s something about reducing human suffering into spreadsheets and legalese that is particularly horrifying, which is exactly the point. American capitalism feels different from the market economy in other countries and it is this history — that it was built explicitly to enable wealthy white men to enslave and exploit — that makes it unique.

Radical Suburbs

I’m generally a fan of Belt Publishing, since their focus on the ways the build environment impacts our lives and highlighting the midwest really resonates with me. I grew up thinking the suburbs were boring and all more or less the same, but Radical Suburbs reveals the utopian roots of the suburbs and I learned all about a suburban commune in New Brunswick, NJ that I — a history nerd from NJ who even lived in New Brunswick — had never heard about before.

One Man’s Meat

E.B. White is known for his children’s books, but his columns about daily life in Maine caught my interest and I quickly made my way through all of his other books. In One Man’s Meat his observations feel like they could have been written this morning, except for when he references prices or politics and I’m suddenly reminded that he’s writing in the 1930s.

What’s the Economy For, Anyway

You probably know the GDP is a terrible measure of the wealth of a nation. What’s the Economy For, Anyway? goes way beyond mocking our politicians and CEOs for their GDP obsession and provides alternate frameworks for how we can use measurement (and the way that inevitably results in teaching to the test) to create an economy that works for people, not just corporations.

Understanding the world

The Seeds of Life

This book never uses the word misogyny, but it is the best proof of its existence that I’ve encountered. Reading The Seeds of Life might turn you off medicine forever once you hear about the ways the men who created western medicine spent hundreds of years proving that women had nothing to do with childbirth. Some of the asides are gems that didn’t fit into the narrative but Dolnick couldn’t resist including — like the guy convicted of adultery with a pig and menstruating bats. Menstruating bats! They made me laugh out loud and haunt me still.

The Art of Memoir

I read Mary Karr’s The Art of Memoir, then listened to the audio book, and then gave copies to several people. I’m not planning on writing a memoir.

Merchant Kings

Prior to reading this book, I thought that North America was colonized by the British. After reading Merchant Kings I understood that it was colonized by corporations. Everything else made a lot more sense after that.

Debt: the first 5,000 years

This is a very long book and it’s packed with ideas that were new to me, as someone without formal economics training. Graeber’s writing is clear and accessible, but it still took me a while to get through it and I’m sure I’ll be re-reading it soon. I talked so much about Debt that I convinced several friends to read it and basically tricked them into becoming a book club.

The stories about economics that we learn in school — that before cash everyone had to barter and it was terribly inefficient, the tragedy of the commons, the self-regulation of pricing, that each dollar is the same as any other — didn’t grab my interest because they all seemed wrong. Graeber explains the real history behind these misunderstandings in the first book about economics I’ve read that bore any resemblance to my own experience with how money works.

A Fine Mess

Okay, so most people don’t get excited reading about tax systems. I understand. But if you’ve read books like Merchant Kings or The Half Has Never Been Told you understand how the tedium of bureaucracy has a huge impact on history and dictates our daily lives. A Fine Mess shows how taxation determines the options we have in our lives using examples from around the world and shows how changing the tax system is an overlooked tool in building the world we want to live in.

Also, you can’t figure out the differences between the tax codes in two countries without spending a lot of time thinking about how that shapes and is shaped by the differences in their cultures.


After reading this book I found myself working pigeons into practically every conversation and suggesting people read this book, which is surprisingly easy to do if you’re as good at steering conversations as I apparently am. Sorry, friends. But it’s a great book. Especially if you’ve found yourself wondering why so many pigeons have messed up feet or read that article about the pigeon pyramid scheme and can’t stop thinking about it.

Other books I enjoyed

Overdrive is my BFF.

The Unsettlers

The Unexpected Journey of Caring


Frying Plantain

Lost in America

Gross Anatomy


Flash Count Diary

Conversations with Friends

My Year of Rest and Relaxation

You Too Can Have a Body Like Mine


Stay up with Hugo Best

The Answers

Nobody is Ever Missing

You Don’t Have to Live Like This

You Know You Want This

What I Talk About When I Talk About Running

There There

Tin Man

So You Want to Talk About Race


The Unspeakable

Did She Kill Him?

Someone Who Will Love You in All Your Damaged Glory

Get Well Soon

Nuclear Family

The Wanderers

Swing Time

Lost Connections


Delayed Response


The Man Who Quit Money

The Chairs Are Where the People Go

Uneasy Street

The Art of Community


Trick Mirror

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